We've been seeing each other for some months now. I have never had a boyfriend before. While never really addressing me as his girlfriend, we did 'things' that any couple would do. But a few days back, when I confronted him about what I was to him, he didn't have much to say except, " I am not ready for a relationship". I was too drunk so I slept with him hoping that he would change his opinion. I am really confused! He got upset when I called us 'friends with benefits'. What does he want? He's not my boyfriend according to him. I just lost my virginity to him. And I am not his friends with benefits? It's not like he's been ignoring my calls or messages. He said he was a commitment phobe but he was in a relationship with his ex for 6 years! Is he too damaged from his past relationships?
I don't love him but his words and actions make me feel like he doesn't respect me. I am really frustrated as I have never been in a relationship before!
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