Something about your behavior is triggering them, and you are likely attracted to guys who tend to be abusive in the first place.
Were you abused in some way in your past? Many victims of childhood abuse have mannerisms that abusers can easily detect, and that tell those abusers that "this one is a 'good victim'".
If none of that, then it's the way you dress, act, or carry yourself. If you don't have self-respect and self-value, then others aren't going to respect you either. Someone with self-esteem would not tolerate such behavior towards them for 2 seconds - they'd LOUDLY respond and make it clear that such behavior is unacceptable - and by doing so, they'd gain respect from the people treating them that way.
None of this is trying to tear you down in any way - I'm just answering your question, so if any of this seems to apply to you, think about what I've written and how you might want to change your thinking and behavior going forward.0 0 0 0I don't know perhaps its the way i carry myself, but what exactly does that mean tho?
It means that your body language and mannerisms project whether or not you have self-esteem and self-worth, and abusers are very "tuned" to detecting this. And believe it or not, past victims and those with low self-worth tend to be drawn towards abusers. Put an abuser and a girl with low self-worth in a room with 50 other people, and in about 10 minutes they'll be talking to each other - drawn to each other like a magnet. If you carry yourself with your head held high, look people directly in the eye, are happy but relaxed/laid back, and don't take any shit from anyone, abusers will naturally learn to avoid you, because you will no longer be a "good victim" for them.
Ur absolutely right
just to let you know, being a virgin isn't gonna free you from all the assholes in this world.
anyways i think the reason why they treat you like this is because you are probably letting them. either that or you are just clicking with the wrong type of guys0 0 0 0
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"cum into my life always treat me like a hoe/slut"
Am I the only one who can't stop laughing at that lol
Honestly though, how would any of us know why guys treat you that way, it could be a number of things.1 0 0 0Smd bitch get off my page
smd? what is it with you abbreviating words so much, that's how "cum" got you in trouble in the first place, never learn.
You let one.
Others noticed.
This is now "who you are to them"
Only you can stop this.
But, it will likely mean "being alone"2 0 0 0Start spelling "come" correctly and then see how things go from there.
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You poor thing.
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5 12Haha.. cum.
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Don’t be so angry ! And def don’t call people you don’t know thots.. they get tattered that way you. Also slow it down on the smd thing you don’t have a dick and own up to your mistakes. Learn from them then go correct your spelling !
"cum" I'm sorry but lmao
1 0 0 0suck dick thot
I wonder why they call you that though you have such a winning personality
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You either give them the wrong idea yourself or you are not standing up to them when they try and do those things, but it could also be you just let douchebag guys get that close to you.
0 0 0 0what u mean by wrong idea? , i think u may have a point here
what dat mouth do thoo?
0 0 0 0You might be wearing too much makeup.
0 0 0 0Dnt wear makeup
Well, maybe you have been attracting jerks. But if you don't mind me saying, your slut shamming attitude makes you sound like an ass too. I think it's a great first step avoiding being an ass yourself, don't you think?
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Your username and spelling of the word "come" makes it difficult for me to take this seriously
4 3 0 0Fck u
I was about to say that.
No need to be hostile little lady
It's probably the type of people you're hanging out with. You said every time you talk to a guy they use you for kissing and touching, well if you let them what do you expect, every other kid that hears this is gonna try to do the same.
0 0 0 0Just because you are a Virgin doesn't mean you are automatically not a slut
2 2 0 1Huh :/ that makes no sense dummyy 😒
It doesn't to you because you can't accept the truth if you suck a lot of dick and you haven't had sex you are not cleared from being a slut you used the word cum instead of cum I wouldn't be calling any one dummy
Sumthen tlk cuz prt lol and I'm the dummy
Maybe because every giy who comes along your way or your choice seems be be bad...
Maybe you only date jerks?0 0 0 0I just have bad luck w. Guys
Oh guys at your age are all fuck boys anyways... LOL you will meter a mature man when you grow up... 😊
Thats why i like older guys...
Sounds like you might be doing something that gives off that vibe. I don't know you so its hard for me to say
0 1 0 0What vibe explain
Like maybe you are bubbly and extra flirty. Some guys can take that the wrong way
Ik im bubbly but not flirty
Deepthroat that dick
0 0 0 0I mean not to point out the obvious but look at your login name … you’re more then just a hole to fill or enjoys cum and the letter words … right? I hope?
0 0 0 0hey on behalf of men, im sorry we have treat you ladies that way cause we have seen dirty things. dont worry, just change your circle of friends and hang around more to the nicer homies around you. keep your virginity, dont waste it to some jackass ( i used to be ) There will be times that you will find love.
0 0 0 0Maybe you just have a look about you?
0 0 0 0Explain
I don't know how to lol it's just this look that you might have
Yass queen! I get that all the time! It’s a look I have and I wear it well!
-_- no words
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there assholes in high school it happens all the time, dont let them hurt you, dont let them judge you or bring u down. but how are u with guys i know ur a virgin and thats good but do u flirt and kiss a lot of guys? or at least more than one at a time? that can make u look slutty, they only use you if you let them,
0 0 0 0I dnt flirt w. Guys im very shy
then there just bullshitting , they maybe just think ur pretty or there just terrible people
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