Why does my boyfriend treat me like a slut & not a gf?

my boyfriend treats me like sum girl on the corner. He treats me more like a slut & not as girlfriend material. He never buys anything for me or my cab fares, he never calls/txt during the day only at night to cum over & he never introduces me to his friends , if they ask what we are he just says were friends & it hurts my feelings cuz i really feel played. Why does he treat me like this?
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  • He may be your boyfriend but you are NOT his girlfriend. I know that sounds kind of snotty and i apologize for that. You are just a piece of ass to him. There are 3 types of girls that guy's generally will bang. There are girls that a guy will meet out somewhere and bang because the situation was right, although he doesn't particularly care if he ever even talks to her again. Maybe they exchange numbers and meet up again or maybe not. There are the girls (Like yourself) that the guy LOVES the sex and wants to keep her to himself, therefore he keeps in contact and within grasp so she won't go get a REAL boyfriend and then there are the serious girlfriends, to whom which the guy will brag to his family and all of his friends about how lucky he is to have this girl.
    Your choices are either A) Accept it for what it is and use HIM for the sex (If It's good) or B) Tell him to piss up a rope.

    • Ur rite

  • You may think he is your boyfriend, but he does not think you are his girlfriend. He treats you like a girl who will be there for him without him being there for you, and like a girl who will put up with him calling only at night to go over, and i girl who is handy but not someone to introduce to his firends... because you are and you let him.

    • omggg ur so right I don't know why i do let him do this

    • Thank you for MHO :-)

    • Np 👌👍

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  • You are being played honey.
    I'm sorry to break it to you.

    He wants you as his booty call.
    Some guys will do whatever it takes to get the goods.
    Of course he will tell you you are his girlfriend just so he can get what he wants.
    If he went about things being open and saying he just wants a friend w/ benefits, he wouldn't have gotten the goods.
    I think you should speak to him about this... and then end things.

  • Try breaking up with him? Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like a slut? You're only 17, you don't need a guy like that in your life

    • i broke up w. Him & now he's cursing me out like a sailor.

  • 'Cause y'all aren't on the same page.

    .. and you're too good for him. I suggest walking away.

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  • He treats you like this because he doesn't see you as a girlfriend, but as a collection of orifices for him to stick his dick into.

    If you're not okay with that, leave, because this isn't going to change, until he finds someone he actually wants to treat like a girlfriend and leaves you for her.

    • I left hikm.& now he's cursing me out & harrassing me

  • Becuase he's a peice of shit and if you haven't figured this out yet you definitely deserve BETTER no ones deserves ro be treated like meat and thats what he is doing you need to drop that douche like quick there is abguy out there that would be glad to introduce you as his better half and workship the ground you stand on lol

  • why not leave him?

  • Leave that jerk if you are not happy.

    • I left him & now he's filled w. Anger harassing me & threatening me

    • Ignore him.. tell your parents if this gets out of hand.

    • Im scared tho 😩😩

  • Question for you:
    Why the hell is he still your boyfriend?

    • I broke up w. Him & now he's calling me all the names in the book

    • Just ignore him. How did you end up with him in the first place?

    • through a mutual frirnd

  • he treats you like this because YOU accept it.

    • I don't know why i do. Sumthens wrong w. Me 😔

    • Indeed.

  • the way you describe he isn't treating you like a slut. if he treats u like a slut he will use you for sex only, demands sex all time and then not care at all..
    But true he is not treating you well or treating you with love. Having a good talk with him and see his true feeling is a good idea. communication is the key.

    • He does only ask for sex... 😒

    • get rid of him then. dont let him treat u like that

    • I did already & now he's cursing me out & harrassing me

  • obviously he´s not interested in you. you should leave him.

    • why not im a nice girl?

    • yeah but he is obviously not a nice guy so forget about him. look for a guy who treats you right. don´t just be nice to any asshole that doesn´t treat you right.

  • Because ypu let him treat you like that... cause you are weak! And he takes advantage of that...
    If you know so much about how he treats you hen why don't you dump him?
    That's another reason why you are being treated like that!

    • I dumped him 2 days ago ✌

    • What? 😱 niceeeee 😈 😊 👍

    • Now he's filled w. Rage & anger cursing me out & harrassing/threatening me

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  • tell them i aam not that type and leave him. problem solved :-)

    • I left him already

    • good decision :-)

  • I guess because he truly sees you as a slut. Not that you are, but maybe you should dump his ass and find a guy that will treat you the opposite.

    • Ur absolutely right. & Yes i dumped him &he turned real angry & hostile

    • He's an idiot.

  • Sounds like you two are on different pages. You were under the impression that this was an official bf/gf relationship, while he views it as a friends with benefits or something similar. Did he ask you to be his steady gf?

  • He want's all the fun without the commitment. And/or he's got someone else on the side. Or I notice that you're 17, is he older by any chance? Could be afraid of the whole going to jail thing.

    But yeah if you let him treat you this way then the fault is kind of on you. Tell him how you feel; if he changes great, if not there are plenty of other guys out there.

  • You will only be treated like a ho if you keep acting like one. Once you respect yourself and stop putting up with that shit... and leave his ass, then you will no longer be acting like a ho.

    • so how does a hoe act

    • The way you're behaving. You are letting him use you for sex, hide you from his friends, and call you a "friend."