Guys, If a guy says "making love" vs "sex"?

[Anonymous]

Does it mean anything? I'm friends with this guy, I think I'm falling for him and he's admitted to liking me to another friend but says he doesn't to my face blah blah long story. Once when we were drunk he took my pants off and tried to have sex with me and his words were "let's just fuck" I said no The other night while sober we were messing around and he got on top of me and said "let's make love" like really softly and sweetly but again I said no. Did he really mean anything by it or was he just trying to be more sensual?

[Davidshandor]

When he says says to just "fuck", when it came to my ex and I that pretty much meant to just do it. Hardcore, whatever. When we would make love, everything was slowed down and more sensual, strokes were slower, eye contact was prolonged and made more often, and when we finished we would lie in bed together and "cuddle", and because we usually made love at night we would go to sleep. When we fuck it was just to bang for the pleasure and release before we go out somewhere or we just wanna have sex and do something afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Making love is a more inclusive term. Anything from staring soulfully into your eyes to coitus though nowadays closer to the latter. Generally the connotation is gentleness. You wouldn't normally describe rough sex as making love.

[Asker]

I know the difference, I'm just wondering if he actually meant it that way

[ccp16]

I t sounds like he just wanted to say it in a way you would like to hear it... I highly doubt he loves you...

Some girls like to be fucked, some like to make love, it is all the same int he end more or less...

[elpylp]

He's listening to your responses and trying to accommodate you because he wants to be with you. It's up to you if you want to go with him or not.
He's trying to figure you out in a very blatant way because he's interested in you. Credit to him for the persistence heh.

[OlderAndWiser]

When a guy talks about making love, he means a relaxed, slow session in which he pay attention to you and makes sure that you orgasm in several ways before he ever gets inside you, and then he tries to make sure that you cum at the same time that he cums inside you. He is talking about using sex to express love and not just to achieve his own personal satisfaction.

[TheBootyChest]

For me, saying making love is about respecting you and letting you know my intention for sex is to "bond" with you, not just for me to get my rocks off.

If he is using both terms then I wonder if he is just trying to say what he thinks you want to hear. Plus age has a lot to do with it. So it's hard to say.

[Taell]

"let's fuck" they say romance is dead.

[johnmsk]

both cases he wanted to gent into your pants.. have to know moe how he treats u to know whether he is making love or just having sex..

[GreatnessPersonified]

He's trying to sex you up, and do it in a manner so you will say yes.
THe fact you said no to "let's just fuck" is a good thing.
That's something you say to a spouse after an argument.
"I can't stand you!!"
"I can't stand you neither!!"
*pause*
"Ok, let's just fuck!!"
"alright."

[CountVronsky]

He was just trying to get laid. Maybe he remembered being rejected when he said "let's fuck", or maybe he was sober enough to have a plan, ha ha!

[ThatBritishLad]

On a different topic, who made up the term "fuck buddies"? It sounds so friggin' goofy. Sort of thing you'd read in the dialogue of those Meet'n'Fuck flash games on Newgrounds.

[dudegrt09]

"I don't make love, I fuck... hard"