I'm a sub all the way! And I prefer being a brat kind of a sub, the one who misbehaves and gets punished. I also love being the victim. I love violent fucking, where I get pinned to the bed, get choked, have my hair pulled, and am fucked hard and fast. I don't mind being tied up, but I prefer a struggle, where we wrestle for power and he overpowers me. I love being degraded in bed, for some reason it turns me on. I love dirty talk. I love being made to do thngs. I love challenging him for power, but him never giving up and constantly overpowering me.
It would take forever to describe my ideal fantasy (and I don't think I could do it without going anonymous), but I think you get an idea of how dirty it would be ;)
Wow i could just imagine what a night with you would be like! where do i sign up? ;)
Thanks ;) I wish my boyfriend would be into threesomes. It's so weird how the idea of dominating a guy grosses me out, but with a chick, it'd be fun to do both. I guess because I love strength and I expect the guy to be stronger. If he's not stronger, he ain't worth it. With a chick, it doesn't really matter. But it would be fun if she was a dom and I got to defeat her into submission ;)
yeah i'm the opposite. I love women and power and strength, I always want to see a woman on top, whether its with another guy, or maybe me. Have you ever tried dominating a guy, have you ever pegged one? the feeling of power you get is indescribable!
I'm actually much more of a dom. Or to be more specific, I'm
96% Voyeur
89% Dominant
83% Bondage giver
82% Experimentalist
81% Degradation giver
77% Non-monogamist
77% Sadist
75% Brat tamer
74% Master/Mistress
67% Brat
66% Ageplayer
65% Primal (Hunter)
63% Switch
62% Exhibitionist
62% Masochist
61% Owner
59% girl/boy
57% Primal (Prey)
43% Degradation receiver
41% Daddy/Mommy
34% Submissive
32% Pet
28% Vanilla
11% Bondage receiver
10% All-Rounder
6% Slave
You can see my results online at https://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=473514 :P
how can you be all that at once? and you can't be almost a third vanilla!
It shows how much I like each one. I do enjoy each of them to some extent. And do like to keep it kinky most of the time, but there are times I want vanilla sex. It depends on my mood.
I can say that this is pretty accurate 😏
More of a switch, I like pegging my boyfriend and smacking his ass as I pound him, calling him my little bitch, as he is on his knees or making him suck my cock after I pull out of his tight ass, but then I like having my hands tied to the headboard, as he takes me, using my toys and he penis on me. So I am both.
Wow. great answer. I like you already :)
More of a Dom, I love taking control of boys more than they take control of me
I am right there with you, girl! ;)
So hot
I can easily be both. I tend not to think in terms of "Dom" & "Sub".
A lot of the time, I'll be in control, be it missionary, doggy, etc, but I also love it when my girl takes charge and climbs on top for a good ride, too.
Sometimes, I'll lay her down, get between her legs, and tease her until she's begging me to fuck her, and then I'll tease her a little longer, until she can't take it. Sometimes, she'll do the same to me.
It really just depends on our mood, and who feels like being more aggressive, or playful. We're about equal, in that regard.
I am dominant. I love when a woman submits to me and lets me use her as I please... I think that i've lived out all of my scenarios. I like to tie up and use multiple toys on her.. Spank and basically put it wherever I like.
Are you submissive or dominant?
I'm dominant for the most part. but i can also sub to women...
So you could only imagine yourself being submissive to another woman?
yeah pretty much.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm predominantly submissive in bed. I love rough, kinky sex. Being tied up, being slapped around a little, being told what to do, and having my face fucked are all turn ons of mine. But I can be dominant if I find myself sleeping with a submissive guy. Sometimes being aggressive is fun and a good change.
I'm sorry, did you say something, i was just staring at that pic in your profile. Just kidding, that's a really interesting answer, i like it.
Hahaha I'm dying. Wish I was that girl or at least could get my hands on her.
oh my god, tell me about it. I must have her!
We're pretty kinky. She gets spanked a lot.
if you're pretty kinky, i'm hoping there's a lot more than just spanking going on...
There is. What would you want to go on? We'll do a little scene but I'd rather do it on messaging.
My and my boyfriend take turns on who's the slave and who's the master in bed. :D
I get extreme pleasure being in charge and seeing his face expressions and I like to have him over power me.
nice variety!
I'm both. Usually, I'm the sub like 70% of the time, but we like to switch :)
I am more of a dom. Though not in the BDSM way. I just naturally tend to take control in bed. I will try something more BDSM like and even try being submissive as soon as I get the chance.
I'm very submissibe, more of the slave type. I'm into bdsm and also like the feeling of giving away control completely. I like it when he treats me like a piece of meat he only uses to pleasure himself without giving a fuck about my feelings, when I don't know what he does next and I'm not able to stop him. with my ex friends with benefits I came to the point where we didn't use a safeword anymore. of course you need to trust him a lot for that but I really loved it. so yeah... definitely sub
I like to be dominant and take control - I like obedience and to reward it.
Interesting to see that the majority of women are sub/both.
I like being in charge.
you may like it, but do you always get what you like?
Yes. I refuse to be a sub, therefore I always get what I like.
hmm you would be an interesting sub to me...
I fel like the best is to take turns and - sometimes - to wrestle for dominance.
who wins during this wrestling?
Well... depends on the girl. I generally win but some of them can fight really "dirty". these are my favorites :)
What are some dirty things they would do?
I like both, but I think I'm more submissive. In the slave sort of submissive.
I'm pretty submissive it don't bother me either way but every girl I have slept with just likes to over power me
why do you think that is? how are you physically?
I'm a pretty big guy and like to stay fit (I'm actually training for the Marines) but when it comes to the bed room the girl always likes to be in charge and if I try to fight it, it just gets worse lol
how does it get worse?
I like to be both... I love it when she takes control and does me anyway she wants.
Sub, I like when the girl tells me what to do. The fight for power, I say no and she forces me by any means. I like no control at all.
i am very much submissive.
Swap between the two. Variety is the spice of life.
Dominant. I want a girl who is eager to surrender to me and please me in every way.
Damn! good luck with that! haha
Why "good luck with that", Asker? We're not that hard to come by. I've had a LOT of posts myself asking about dominance and submission, and many girls would be keen to submit and do what they're told :P
@Sex-Kitten, I don't know too many girls like that, but I'm sure they're out there...
I'm submissive. Not sure why, I just love dominant girls.
Seems like the majority of guys are dominant, and the majority of girls are submissive. Interesting results.
I like to dominate with my fingers and tongue and deliver powerful orgasms
Well I'm almost always submissive with my current girlfriend (she answered down below)
I'm a switch with most people. I'm usually more aggressive with guys though. I tend to be more gentle with girls.
oh who is she? oh you're bi? me too.
She answered with the long list of results. Well I'm pansexual but I tell people I'm bi. It's easier to explain.
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