Have any of you ever let your girlfriend have sex with someone else?

So I'm sure most of you will think that this is very strange of me and my girlfriend. But if you don't have anything nice to say, please don't respond because this is serious. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and are a very sexual couple. We are very much in love and know that we'll get married once we finish college. We want to try adding another man into our sex life for a new experience. We decided that we can't do it with a stranger and the best person to do it with would be my best friend, whom I've been best friends with since kindergarten. He is pretty built and is hung more than most guys, including me. My girlfriend is really attracted to him and he thinks my girlfriend is a "10 out of 10" which I take as a compliment. This is a guy who would never stab me in the back and is a really good friend. We've all attempted to do this together once so far but my friend wasn't able to get hard with me watching him and I can totally understand that. He is the nervous one, not me or my girlfriend. So to get him more comfortable, I'm going to let them sleep together without me first and he seems to like that idea a lot. I know you're probably thinking I'm crazy but I fully trust both of them and it seems to be a turn on for everyone. I don't think of sex as that big of a deal to be honest and I think this will have a positive effect on mine and my girlfriends sex life. I just want to know what you guys think and how you would feel. Thanks
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  • It's your relationship so screw what other people think honestly. I personally could never "share" but I've heard of this before and was offered to join in something similar I think through craigslist before but it was a stranger so I wasn't comfortable, plus I don't like men. I think I was also offered to sleep with someone's wife while the guy watched, but the "stranger" aspect still made it tough, so I can see why even in your case his erection would be a problem.

    Overall I think it'll just take time to get used to but still work out. Some couples "share" and it's their relationship. Most people just would prefer not to go that route and are very judgmental about these kinds of situations due to social conditioning. There is STD risks to consider but that's all stuff you can easily figure out over time.

    I honestly find people who go nuts and act irrational over what couples do by themselves to be very childish. They'll say "What they do behind closed doors is their business" when it comes to homosexuality but then get a jumpity when they read this stuff. It's kinda funny honestly.

  • Yes...
    I have small penis (1.5 inches)... My girlfriend laughed at me... She denied to do sex with me... I asked her for threesome... Some how she agreed... My friend was waiting outside of my hostel room... I called him.. We did it together... But he fucked her first... he fucked her more than me that day...

    It was the embrassing day for me seeing my girlfriend having sex with another man...

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  • Personally I could never do that.

    But if all parties are aware and consenting, I see no problem with it.

    But I would be concerned with getting someone you know well involved in this. Yes, you trust them blah blah blah, but you can't control people's feelings.

    If you do it with a stranger, you can easily part ways after the experience. Having someone you know involved can become troublesome no matter how you trust them.

  • As long as noone gets hurt or anything like that and everyone in the situation is comfortable and rules are set in places and no one ends up with a child buy the wrong person I say go for it also no diseases or anything like that to

  • I've said it before and I'll say it again... what if he's amazing in bed and she leaves you for him... you're asking for trouble

    • would you leave your boyfriend even if he let you be with him whenever you wanted as long as you love him?

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  • I think your girlfriend is an awful bitch for even considering doing that, and i wouldn't be surprised if she left you for your friend after having sex with him.

  • I honestly do not see the appeal of this, but if it works for you then go ahead.

    Just don't be surprised if you get jealous and/or your girlfriend starts cheating on you because she thinks that she has your permission.

    • Oh, and be wary of STDs.

  • I think it is an awful idea - I find group sex too emotionally complicated at the best of times but leaving them alone is madness, a recipe for disaster.

  • Are you bisexual? Is she bisexual? Maybe you guys can go back & forth with a man and a woman.

  • I guess it's your life... horrible idea but it's not my partner or sex life so I can't judge you... just what if she starts doing it behind your back? What if she moans Lauder with him organs more and... your left feeling insecure?

  • Sounds like you and her might as well start swinging, if that's what you're into might as well get some tail if she is out there doing the same thing. I have always heard it can spice up your sex life

  • That's just.. umm.. so weird.

  • lol never.

  • Lmao. So you're some kind of gay submissive man who gets off on being a public disgrace. Props to having such low self esteem. Maybe you can even win an award for thinking so low of yourself. Your relationship is basically over. 90% of couples that add a man break up over it. Either you will get jealous and that will end things or she will prefer him and that will end things. Thats basically the two most likely scenarios. Just because something seems like a good idea doesn't mean it is a good idea.

  • I think he's like that.

  • Why would she want to fuck someone else thats the real question

  • It's not something I'd be too keen on, but if you're all sure about this go for it. If the idea of another guy being with her doesn't bother you particularly then I imagine it could be quite fun.

  • No i have not.

  • It's not good, i don't like it😁

  • I think you should go for it buddy. The idea of another guy fucking my girlfriend somewhat turns me on