Guys, when a guy tells u to his fuck buddy or friends with benefits... what do I do?

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Im not into it. But he wants me to give him a bj and have sex by doing various positions. When a guy asks a girl to b his sex buddy... Is it that he does not care about her abd just want to have fun and experinent sex in many ways he wants.. Fantasies? .. What does it all mean? If i say no.. Does it make me a bitch and if a girl says yes.. Is she a whore.. And he tells all about the sex stuff with this girl to his friends as being easy?

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How many girls would be up for this kind of relationship as fuck buddies or do girls just have intercourse with their boyfriend?

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Junlian Yoda
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For me fuck buddies or friends with benefits are okay when both are in agreement on it and feel the trust each other. It also may include help a guy out if he's a virgin and the girl is more experienced. I dobt see her as a slut or a woe if its for friendly purpose. Hell before date a guy you know he been in some girl so... Yeah. If you say no, he as a friend must respect that, it just means he feel a sexual urge to please himself but rather do it with a partner. And yes guys do talk so, this is not hard decision to make. If you feel you have to question yourself. Dont do it.
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- Asker
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  Im 28 and he is 31. His friends are married.. Dating.. Engaged. I had sex with him before but was bc i thought we were in love. He would tell me he likes me but only recently he told me he does not have emotional connection for me. I was deeply hurt becayse i loved him. I made him meals. Gave him gifts. Much more but i got nothing!! .. Then he tells me this past Saturday forget everything i said. Lets just b fuck buddies. I was shocked he would ask that wen he knew from start i wanted love. He even asked me to b his girl when i was travelling but 6 months later he denies it. I saved the chats and showed it and he said screw it. I felt like he was playing me! Now im deeply hurt. Plus he told me i can get any girl to b my fuck budfy.. first he told me he would call me wen he is ready for a relationship and then tells me he wants a girl from his country bc his brother younger to him got married. I am deeply hurt. Do u think he will realize what he lost. He said im sweet n appreciates it
- Junlian
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  Ouch, yes you are definitely being played, what he is doing not right at all. He dropped so many hints that he only want sex. Move on. Im sorry. Dont let him sweet talk you, dont let him touch you, dont let him associate himself with you. He knew what he was doing and now he must understand. Be distant friends but give yourself months to recover.
- Asker
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  Can u tell me like what h[nts he dropped that he's only looking for sex? ..
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- Junlian
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  " he will tell me he likes me" hint 1 " he told me he had no emotional connection." so obvious this dud is not serious. Hint 2 : " forget everything I said" okay so now he is no longer want serious but also don't want a relationship either. Which also means he wants be friends. But he know you will be his friend in need. Hint 3 " I felt like he was playing me!" You knew he was, but yet he just wanted one thing. It's not serious relationship. Hint 4: if he can get any girl then why he want your body now but a relationship later.
- Junlian
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  Make sense? He want be friends with you but not a serious relationship. So no dating, no emotional attachment, no romantic anything. So He sees you as his fuck buddy or his friend with benefits with noooooo emotional attachment. If you want me explain more you can message me if also gets too personal.
Goforit1010 Guru
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Girls need an emotional attachment to have sex. Guys... don't. In the case of your boyfriend, he's using you, plain and simple. Regardless of what he says, all he wants is a whore he can fuck anytime HE wants. He could care less about the woman he's emotionally destroying. Please, do NOT do anything you don't want to. From everything you wrote, I'd recommend you leave him. If he can get a fuck buddy any time he wants, then fine. HE can go find that "anyone", but I don't recommend you're that person.
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Theguyoverthere Guru
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It sounds like you have a selfish partner who doesn't know how to please a woman. He just wants to get off and do what he wants regardless of your pleasure.

I suggest you break things off, but please dent the hell out of his ego before you do so. We got enough crappy guys out there like him he couldn't please a woman if their life counted on it.
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allnite69withme Xper 5
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he sees you only as a pleasure toy and believes you are dumb enough to do this. However, he sees women who are that easy as unworthy of more than being a sex buddy. Do you think you are worth more?
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driel Xper 5
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friends with benefits is only good if you want that too, if you;re hoping for something more and he doesn't you're only going to get swept up in emotions and then feel really bad later on. You're not a bitch or a whore or any other name you can think of no matter what choice you make. Do what feels right to you and if you're not into friends with benefits then tell him that and that's that.
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JuicyBrain Yoda
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Wait a minute. A guy asks you to be his friends with benefits and suddenly you are either a bitch or a whore? Aren't there any other options? If you say no and he calls you a bitch, that does NOT make you a bitch. Saying yes does not make you a whore either. You have the right to live your sexuality however you want to. Guys aren't the only ones who get to experiment and have fun. You have the right to. If you feel like you want to do it, then do it. If you don't feel like it, then don't. Don't let other people's narrow views limit you in your experimentations. Your sex life is none of their business anyway...
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reptocarl Master
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I don't think friends with benefits is ever a good idea. Don't do anything sexual you're not comfortable with
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GreatnessPersonified Explorer
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When a guy asks a girl to b his sex buddy... Is it that he does not care about her abd just want to have fun and experinent sex in many ways he wants..
-It means he wants to have sex with you.

What does it all mean?
-It means he wants to have sex with you.

If i say no.. Does it make me a bitch and if a girl says yes.. Is she a whore..
-Sounds like an unwinnable situation. Do what you wish.

And he tells all about the sex stuff with this girl to his friends as being easy?
-Sounds like a jerk move. Guys who care about their girl don't go around talking about her.
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singlebee Guru
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If you say yes then you will become a bitch!
And yes he doesn't care for you if he wants you to do that...
If he did then he wouldn't want you to share with anyone...
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tayoker Xper 6
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Do what u want to do... if u want people here to say if u did this u will be... then ud only care about how people see ur life rather than how u want ur life to be... just do what u like to do
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kiler1000 Xper 6
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ditch the loser. i believe sex is sacred.
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RasAlGhul Xper 7
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if u aren't into that just dont do it...
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