My girlfriend is scared of losing her virginity. How can I put her at ease? And know when she is ready?

[Anonymous]

At first she told me she was not a virgin. But after about four months of dating she told me she was ready. Then when we were about to do it she Said she couldn't do it. She told me she lied about her experience and apologized. She told me she thought I woulld not want to date a virgin. Which I don't care about and I don't want to push her. How can I ease her fear of losing her virginity? And how can I know she is ready. I want her to be comfortable with me.

[Adrian_Pappi]

dont talk about it for a while but dont act different. show her without telling her that u dont care about sex... make her wanna do it with you because she wants to not because she thinks she has to. okay

[Anonymous]

Just give her time.