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Have you ever had a threesome with a partner where the third person was much hotter than you?

If you did, what happened? Did you feel insecure at all and how did you get over it? Did your partner start to like the other person better and want to start sleeping with them separately? My boyfriend and I have both expressed that we're open to the idea of an open relationships or swinging type relationship. There was a girl at a meet up we attended who is gorgeous. He brought her up by saying that she seems really interesting and wishes he had talked to her more. I commented that she is the hottest woman I've seen in all the meetups we've attended, and he agreed and said that she also has this quiet sex appeal (he had always said that about me.) We had talked about threesomes and how we both really wanted to try one so I asked if he was interested in that and he said he is. I told him how I felt and he said that even if she's hotter it wouldn't necessarily mean that he would become more into her, it would just be fun. I've always wanted to try a threesome but I didn't expect to feel so insecure about it. How can I get over it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You are such a fucking idiot that it actually made me angry reading your god damn post.

    "HEY I'M REALLY INTO THE IDEA OF BEING INTO THREESOMES AND AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP."

    "OH WHOOPS! LOOKS LIKE MY NATURAL HUMAN INSECURITY WAS SUDDENLY TRIGGERED WHEN I REALISED WHAT A STUPID FUCKING SITUATION I PUT MYSELF INTO, GEE WHIZ WHAT A CONUNDRUM."

    Did you HONESTLY think you lacked such basic human ego and basic human envy that you would get into this situation completely and utterly emotionally unscathed? Frankly the fact that you're even indulging such a disgusting relationship to begin with gives me second hand disappointment, but the fact that your healthy ego outright TOLD YOU what a dumb decision you were making, and you're only "slightly" questioning it, genuinely makes me weep for western society.

    • Wow Rex, get a dildo buddy... Sheesh

    • dude... woah.. chill, a lot of people are into open relationships and swinging, they're actually a huge demographic in today's society, which is beautiful because sexual freedom is important, but even then, there are still some insecurities that come with it just like in any other type of relationship. You just seem mad because she's already having twice as much sex as you'll ever have.

  • actually he was honest when he said she was hotter... but on da other hand he said he wouldn't do anything more wid her. he respects u it seems... and he wouldn't like to break-up wid u.

    he was clear 3-some'd be for fun... i guess u r just kinda insecure i'm afraid :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Psssh, I wouldn't let the third person be TOO cute. That's just asking for trouble. (If this threesome consisted of me and a lover and another person, that is )

  • Girl please, Find a hot guy who will join you for a threesome and tell hubby its a tit for a tat... you do with her if he does with stud master.

    • lolol

  • I did my threesomes all outside of relationships to avoid problems like that :)

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  • ... seems like this will only lead to you finding a more attractive guy and each trying to out do each other to fight each other through insecurities. But its your sex life, good luck.

  • This one time I had a 3 some with my left hand and my right hand, does that count? Might I add my right is damn fine.

    • Is one of your hands hotter than the other?

    • My right one is fine af! 😂

  • I had a threesome with my girl, and we ended up sleeping with this incredible Italian man. No joke he was like 10 time hotter than me, and his dick was like twice as big. It was crazy. Dark skinned, lean mean and hot. I ended up on the corner of the bed jacking off to them fucking hard. At least she was happy 🙉

    • What happened with him after that, was it a one time thing or did she want more?

    • Was a one time thing. We were traveling, so no chance of ever meeting up with him again (thank goodness!)

    • But i will say it charged her up. Made her feel sexy. I know of the situation was reversed it would have made me feel better about myself

  • Realize that in any relationship, looks only account for so much, there ae plenty of pretty people in the world and to think you're better looking than every single one of them. You have your place in his heart that cannot be replaced and a persons inner beauty can never be shadowed by someone elses outer beauty

  • Maybe you should pick the first girl... then he can pick the guy when you do a mfm

  • You can't i think. get used to it lol
    or dont try three some, if you dont like to share your partner.

  • Gotta give him credit for being truthful.

    I've had it with another couple where the bloke can be considered extremely good looking. It went well and the woman developed feelings for me as I'm not good looking, just well endowed but I do put in the effort into pleasing her.

  • don't have the threesome.

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