Guys, If he cums inside of you.. does he have feelings for you?

[Anonymous]

My bestfriend and i sleep together. I asked him to bust inside of me because i wanted to feel him throb inside of me when he went... i also offered him a condom if he felt safer that way and he didn't want it. He knows i am on the pill and he trusts me with everything... so he ended up blowing inside me unprotected... from your standnpoint as a man... do you have to have an emotional connection with her to do that or is it just a feel good thing

[Kapakani]

Okay! You truly can only find the complete answer with what YOU know here. It's 70/30 here honestly. Most guys will do it just because it feels good, to brag "I shot my load in her", or just because he lost control mid thrusts. And then 30% might do it because they want to feel closer or mate with u (have babies lol). But seriously a guy doing that wouldn't help you determine at all if they have feelings for you. You know your friend, I read you know he didn't have many partners, so maybe for him he is sending a message outside of just the sensation of sex. But you can only judge that because there is no exact answer here, most do it to do it, some for a level of trust I guess. But that's just my opinion :)

[Anonymous]

I personally have to have a LOT of trust/faith in you to do that. I've dated quite a few women in my life and only done that with two. One who I was with for 5 years and she eventually ended up stealing money from me while I was in the hospital (intensive care; yeah she ended up being a real piece of work) and the other is my wife now. I'm super cautious about that.

But that being said I know a lot of guys who just don't care and would rather leave the condom off just because it feels better.

[Asker]

See he hasn't been with a lot of women so i wouldn't know... but the first time we slept together we were already very close friends and it was unprotected

[Opinion Owner]

First time with my (now wife) I went all in too. I mean we knew each other for a long time and on a personal level we were very close. So when we got together it was like Game On.

[Asker]

We do it a lot... still no relationship but he says im more than just a girl he has sex with :/ lol

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow no relationship; I missed that part. You're more brave than me. I'd need some kind of commitment.

[Theguyoverthere]

No way. At least not in my case.

For some guys they can get blinded by the stimulation of sex and get emotional but it is nowhere near required to have an ejaculation. I've heard of some guys getting just as extreme with girls with the emotions over a simple hookup before but overall there's plenty of guys who screw around with 0 emotions.

[allnite69withme]

It as nothing to do with an emotional thing. Every man likes to cum in a woman, it is much more enjoyable than cumming on her stomach or elsewhere.

[GreenHL]

I'd have to say no, but that's just my opinion. I think it differs from guy to guy tbh. Personally I like to blow my load over a girls body rather than inside her. I know a lot of girls expect every guy to like doing it inside the most, because that's how babies are made.. But then porn came along and ruined most of our minds.

[THE_Godfather]

... NO...
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[youngandhappy]

no , I would say he lusts for that feeling of cuming inside you.. but if there were ever a mishap and a baby was put in the frame I don't know if he'd be around... be careful

[Asker]

Oh he would be around... i am on the pill there's no trying... but he does want kids and thinks his time is running out (he a tadbolder than i am.

[youngandhappy]

I mean anything could happen , obviously the chances of getting prego or really small while on a good pill I know this but you never know... your asking for my opinion and my opinion is no.. cumming inside a girl does not mean he cares about you.

[Adrian_Pappi]

It's a great feeling for us as well. No feeling as to be there... Every man wants to cum inside a hot girl. So ur bestfriend came inside you, his life just got better... I think this is a message to everyone who thinks they are friend-zoned. Stick in there (literally) and u might get to cum.

[lucasnabizada]

OMG... THAT MADE MY DAY... I consider myself mature, but when I read your question I couldn't help bursting into laugh...
But to answer... I don't believe it's universal... LOL
He may or may not just like any other guy who cums into a girl

[runningislife]

Damn he must trust you!!

[legslover79]

if that was me and i cummed inside you, yeah of course you would definitely feel mines throbbing very hard. and honestly, i would get very affectionate and just be wanting to be kissing

[genericname85]

it doesn´t mean anything. you´re making things up.