My boyfriend kept pounding me hard me even when I was pushing him away in doggy style position?

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I don't understand, we were doing doggy style and he was already hitting it rough but when i couldn't take it anymore,  I place my hands on his lower abdomen and tried to pull him away and he just became worse... he became evm aggressive that i was yelling and he even told me to keep my moans sufficated in the pillow. i couldn't say anything after sex because i was just shocked and all he said was "wow, I'm tired." I just dont get why he continued? He did hugged me tightly after i left his place and was nice.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He was focused on his. Sometimes you just gotta take a pounding once in a while. Was it really hurting you so bad that you couldn't stand it, or was it uncomfortable and then ou psyched yourself out to make it seem worse? When men are in the thrusts and close to orgasm we tend to start to tune out from everything else and we become a bit more primal. It's instinct taking over as we climax ensuring that we inseminate our partner. You have to give him some slack because in the last moments of sex for a man he's more animal than person. Don't take it so personally and be too sensitive about it. If it hurt, practice rougher sex more often or perhaps try finishing him in alternative ways. But mainly, don't be so afraid of letting go a little. It doesn't sound like he means or meant to hurt you and just got carried away with himself. If you're too sensitive for that then perhaps find a softer less aggressive and masculine lover.

Bad2DaBone · Accepted Answer

I think he is selfish and unconcerned about hurting you. You shouldn't have to explain to him that it was hurting you but you might try that approach and talk it out. Tell him when you say stop you mean it. it's not a game. If he seems sincerely concerned and apologetic I would slowly give in another chance. If he is an uncaring dick about it he is through. No woman deserves to be treated like that and to be honest about it. Even if you started out having sex consensually, if it escalated to where it was hurting you and he ignored your objections and please for him to stop then it could actually be considered rape or sexual assault

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe he felt too much intense desire that he thought that your screams meant that you liked it just maybe he didn't know since his actions were normal after that so I really recommend you to tell him and to understand what really happened there so if he didn't pay attention he will next time but if he couldn't control himself then maybe he should see a specialist

Stacyzee · Accepted Answer

Some men have an extreme enjoyment when they see their woman in pain during sex.
You cannot let this go under the rug.
You have to speak to him AGAIN about this after the fact.
Let him know if he does this again... it's over!

He is violating you in every way... by not respecting your wishes of toning it down or stopping altogether.