I think what is going on here is a case of genetic sexual attraction. You see, people tend to select mates that are much like themselves, both on a physical and mental level. However, in normal situations people aren't attracted to their family members thanks to the Westermarck Effect, which psychologically embeds a natural aversion to sexual attraction among family members. As it stands, you haven't had that effect take place with your biological father, thus there is no real aversion besides your conscious understanding of the taboo nature of your desires.
You definitely aren't alone in that situation. Given how many people who live in adopted homes and haven't seen their biological parents, or are the product of sperm donations, there are tons of stories much similar to yours.
Okay having sexual dreams about your father or a guy about his mother or sister is pretty normal and almost every person go thought that. Freud have , mentioned it. What js not normal is that your mind did not auto delete the dream. It's rare to still remember those dreams when you''re awake because your subconscious mind rule it as inappropriate based on how you been raised mad erase It when u wake up. But how did Freud realize this is by the rare chance that one may still remember if they habeas a sharp mind like yours (and Freud) now the uncommon part is that you consciously fantasize about him. Girl check yourself before you wreck yourself.
... Recently I met my biological father...
I see where it Could get Confusing with your heart and head working hand in hand. He has been this stranger all of your life and with just Meeting Him... It is like he is a newbie good looking man
However, now that you know the bare bone truth, you are going to have to get your own Head about you here, dear, take a step back and leave well enough alone with Dear ol' dad.
Keep this Family Affair to yourself and don't mum a word to Anyone, not even Mom. I think it is this Crush that is pulling at your heart strings at the moment but in time, as you and dad bond as Father and daughter, it will go back to Normal where you really do Know... This man who you finally understand.
Good luck. xx
Thank you so much for allowing me to lend a helping hand with the new man.:)) xxoo
It;s because you always felt abandoned by him (on a subconscious level at least) and now your desire for love and approval from him manifests in sexual desire.
Given the fact that you never knew him I don't think its that big of a deal but as you establish a relationship it should not persist
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It will pass and hopefully you don't act on it and stay calm.
It's a common fact when long lost male/female siblings meet for the first time. Also father/daughter or mother/son. It's well known in psychology.
I think your brain hasn't realized that he is your biological father. I mean, you just met him.
But yes, it's weird.
incestual relationships or attraction are very common just not talked about since it is taboo in modern society. Its not necessarily digusting but i mean you just met him and your feeling are probably alittle jumbled up.
It's weird to have this strong urge.
But on the other hand, it might be because you only met him recently and therefore did not yet build this strong Father-Daughter bond
You still see him more as just a man, than just your father.
I have heard of it before in psychology where an grown young adult meets a biological parent for the first time and tries to make a connection with them as quickly as possible. As the relationship matures the sexual attraction will fade.
Yes its weird.
It's weird but it isn't unheard of.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sexual_attraction
I do not think that is weird as I have experienced the same with my daughter. I basically did not know she existed until she was 18 and I got a knock on the door. She introduced herself and then we started to try and make up for lost time.
I basically did everything I could to spend as much time with her as possible and treated her like the only person on the planet, which was probably a mistake but I wanted to get to know her.
After a few months the relationship changed from get to know each other to her trying to flirt with me. I was terrified, one part of me wanted to get to know my daughter but the other side was terrified because I knew she was flirting.
I did not want to loose my daughter again but I also did not want to hurt her. The next day I called a therapist and immediately went to talk with someone that could help me navigate this situation.
The bottom line the feelings you are having are NORMAL, especially if he is giving you all kinds of attentions. What you need to understand is the attention is probably because he just feels guilty about not being in your life and not that he will recipricate a sexual desire.
It took my daughter over a year to get those feeling out of her head and to realize for me it was not sexual, it was just my desire to have a daughter and my guilt for not being in her life.
They are normal feeling for you but for him they are probably guilt that he was not part of your life and he is probably just over compensating for not being there, especially if you feel that the feeling are mutual.
Not really because you didn't grow up with that father daughter bond so to you he's just another guy
I think the same
Weird doesn't even begin to describe it.
I think it's more common than people think. Whether you act on it is one thing... Are you going to try?
I mean I don't think so. I'm trying not to act on it because I know it's wrong
Is it hard to resist?
Do it then go on Jerry Springer together
there is something called therapy... .
As long as it stays a fantasy it's fine.
I have been told this is very common and happens a lot so you're not alone.
ohhh gross :(
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