How to reassure my boyfriend who has a small penis?

My partner has a smaller than average penis, and he's extremely insecure about it. He's a virgin and is afraid of having sex with me, because he thinks it will just disappoint me and that I'll leave him. Penis size really doesn't matter to me and I've tried to reassure him of that, but I have yet to convince him. He's a great guy and that's what matters. What should I do? :/
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Tell him you love it and him no matter his size. I know many women have told me that smaller ones are easier to suck so that makes them much more enjoyable. Just because his penis is smaller than average doesn't mean he will be BAD at sex. Just look at all of these guys:

    www.experienceproject.com/.../119591

    And not to mention that there are great sex moves that you both can do to emulate a bigger penis.

    www.sofeminine.co.uk/.../...mall-penis-d49607.html

    The group at Experience Project is a support group for "smaller" men.

    • "many women have told me that smaller ones are easier to suck so that makes them much more enjoyable" DO NOT TELL HIM THAT1!!!

    • Why not? 1) It's the truth. 2) He's liable to get more blow jobs due to him being smaller.

    • Umm... why wouldn't you tell him that? :\

Most Helpful Guys

  • Do sexy stuff... Become naked...

    In afew weeks his hornyness will beat the shit out of his insecurities and when he does show you it... Show him that you love it

  • Go down on him, get him hard, and just mount up and rock, like you're riding a horse. Lose your mind and tell him how good it is.

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  • Basically rape him but with his convent, if that makes sense lol.

  • Give him a blowjob and really enjoy it. He will start to realize that you really don't care about his size

  • just give him time and keep up the reassuring thing ;) i think you´re on a good way there. maybe make a first step into a more physical direction.

  • Have you actually seen his penis yet

    • Yeah

    • If you have seen it and are really ok with his size then you need to show him it's ok. Telling him won't do anything. You have to show him that the thought of his penis turns you on and you want to sleep with him. When the subject comes up you have to really sell him on it. Tell him he is perfect but do it in a flirty seductive way

  • then he's inferior.. duh.

  • Have u actually measured it?

  • Why don't you get a boyfriend with a bigger penis?

  • just tell him what you told us that he's a great guy and that's all that matters.

  • well i pray i find a girl like you. tell him you are insulted, and that this insecurity of his implies you are shallow. and that it was more than a penis what attracted you in him in the first place... .

  • Booze and short dress