Should I show my boyfriend my boobs?

I'm 16 and he is 17, almost 18 and we've been dating for 2 years. I love him very much and we've built up trust in each other. I just want to show him what to expect when we finally do have sex. I want to do it over Skype or something and not take pictures, as iCloud isn't very safe. Is it a good idea to just flash them? I want to show him, and he wants to see him. He isn't pressuring me to do it.
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  • You have the right to do it but even if it's over Skype, I wouldn't advise it. Golden rule, never show your face if you show a naked part. So if you do this over Skype, don't show your face on the conversation.

    I would advise you to do it in from of him, not over the Internet. If you really trust im, it shouldn't really be a problem.

    • I wouldn't show my face. At least it isn't snapchat. That isn't safe at all.

    • Though I don't see why you would do it over Skype when you could do it in real life. Skype is not that safe either.

    • I don't want to do it irl because it may lead to sex... :P

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  • Why should you even consider doing that when you're underage? *shakes head* I'm rethinking having kids now... I don't think I want any.

    • Well the age of consent is 16, I don't see any harm in it. Ahh, I guess you're right.

  • I doubt he has gone 2 years without sex hun...

    :-(

    Also don't do it over the Internet. It isn't a good idea.

    • He did. :) I'm his first girlfriend. And okay, maybe I'll wait till we're older.

    • There are 17 year olds who haven't had sex...

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  • don't post a pic do it in person if you must but posting pics of your boobs isn't a good idea ever. Girls have fallen out with guys and the guy has posted her intimate pics all over the net so please don't do it

    • I trust him, but okay if you say so

    • you may trust him now but what if the two of you break up and it is acrimonious?

    • Oh yeah, he may leak the pictures.

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  • If you trust him to take screen shots I suppose you could do that it's not that likely someone would be hacked into it.

    But why not just show him in person? (Do you get spend time together in private?)

    • We don't really get to spend time together in private. We are both very busy so we use Skype to chat.

    • If you're sure you can trust him I guess go ahead. You don't ever hang out on weekends at each other houses?

    • Yeah, sometimes we do.

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  • I don't see any harm.

    • Okay thanks!

  • I recommend doing that only in person. It is easy to make screen captures.

    • Ok. Thanks!

  • Sounds like it would be a treat to him, instead of just flashing how about you just lift up your shirt, showing your bra for the first few times then possibly advance that

    • Good idea. That sounds much better.

    • Mhmm, it teases him but it doesn't give away everything, boobs can change a man... its the test

    • Haha, right.

  • Go to school, and get married! That's the way my MA says it.

    • I do lol. I have a bunch of AP classes

    • Nice, but don't show it. It's going to be a romantic love life to just sex and using each other. I been in your shors7

  • He'll love it. But use snap chat where there is no chance of other eyes getting a hold of you the previous image.

    • Alright. I don't really trust smapchat though.

    • Find a way to flash him in person then. He'll love it. and your privacy is safe.

  • Yeah Skype is safe if you do it for a second

    • ... unless he screenshots it.

    • You have that much distrust in him? Why are you with him.

    • He wouldn't do that. He is on his laptop lol.

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  • Just do it

    • Okay.