Tips on giving good head?

I've never had a desire to have a boyfriend in the past so I would just have casual sex, but I would never give blowjobs because I didn't want to potentially pick up an STD. Now life has changed and Im in a relationship with a guy who really enjoys getting oral and I want to make sure I'm doing a good job. Girls - any tricks you do that guys have loved? Guys - do you mind explaining what the difference is between a good blowjob and a bad/mediocre one?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ahha! Haha this is my specialty. So first things first: here is a BAD blowjob:
    - bored
    - teeth
    - bored
    - tired
    - mechanical
    - repetitive
    -hurry up
    - sweatpants

    Traits of a GOOD blowjob:
    - happy
    - enthusiastic
    - Variety
    - nudity
    - variety
    - enthusiastic

    Attack it! Jump in like crazy. Tell him you want to see how deep you can go and then try. Make sure your mouth is ALWAYS in contact with his junk. If kissing balls then use hand on shaft. If sucking shaft then hand on balls. If you need a break (tired) then kiss it. Nobody cares as long as you mouth is on his piece. Jaw tired? Jam it in your cheek with your teeth together.

    Stick your tongue out! So many babes make the mistake of pulling tongue in: this causes gag reflex. Stick your tongue out and it will help. Don't be afraid to make noises. Light gagging is hot.

    If you don't want it in your mouth i get it: my wife hates cum. Be inventive. Let him shoot it on your face or on your chest. Let him beat himself off while you lick his balls. Wear nothing but high heels and get him off with your feet. Ask him if you can watch him beat off while you vibrate yourself. Then suck him. Titty fuck is great. Ask him to fuck you hard or beg him for a facial.

    Unleash the dick sucking artist within!

  • Here's a link to what I hope are some golden tidbits:

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say just get into it, enjoy it yourself and in return he will enjoy it. Guys don't like when the girl is just trying to hurry up and get done with it. They want to think you are really enjoying sucking them off and you don't want to stop. Let your mouth make love to his dick Make eye contact, smile at him a lot, make slurping noises, and not forget to massage his balls gently. Its up to you weather you want to spit or swallow it but don't let him talk you into something your not comfortable with. My boyfriend prefers me to show him his cum before i swallow it but that is all prefferance of the boyfriend.

  • wow some people on here are stupid, if she used a condom during her casual sex days then she likely wouldn't pick something up. I also never blow random hookups.

    Anyways just don't use teeth, slobber is good, try and deep throat him, play with his balls, and don't be afraid to suck and use your hands to pump his shaft

  • ... casual sex... no blowjob because you were afraid of an std...
    LOOOOL
    anyways.
    pay attention to the head d:

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  • I think just be enthusiastic and watch your teeth, LOL. Then you can ask him what he likes, too.

  • It's very simple: Make him feel like you really want to do it. I get turned on by a girl who really dives into it with enthusiasm. Whether or not the quality is perfect is not really relevant. A man can easily help her by communicating what he likes. But that's not really an option if you feel you are trying to communicate with someone who doesn't really want to do what she's doing.

  • the very hardest and most crucial part is keeping your teeth off of it. Once you've mastered that, it's just a matter of endurance. Squeeze and tug it with your lips. Mush against it with your tongue. Suck, don't soak. And swallow.

  • Well you're in control of his pleasure. Use a lot of tongue. You can even tease him if you want. Just remember to pay close attention to his reactions.

    Also watch your teeth. I personally like it but most guys don't. I avoid using my teeth when I give a blowjob.

  • just be enthusiastic... keep the speed up... and dont be timid. Keep it going hard and fast. Or go in bursts... hard and fast then slow and smooth... then hard and fast again

  • If if a OK blow job you'll get the option to swallow if it's a amazing blow job it will shoot right down your throat

  • Casual sex would have been the culprit for std's, so, you're kind of a hypocrite, ya know? Since having random sex with random men, you'll never know if they have something unless you ha them tested first and you can't have them tested if you're not in to someone, since they're not your property. Just sayin'

    Anyway, best way to give good blow jobs is to learn not only how to dt but also to pay attention to the balls too.

    by the way, what caused the want for a boyfriend now? Did daddy's little girl finally mature?