I thought it would be so awkward for my boyfriend to see me naked and without makeup or styled hair! But then there I was making out with him in the shower then getting out and having sex with him. Really though the entire year before I ended up having sex for the first time or even got my first (and current) boyfriend, I was really working on accepting my body and I am truly glad I did that because it helped so much. Also I usually kiss him and touch him while he's putting the condom on just to keep the mood sexy haha. When you are in love with someone you figure out that it is very hard to find any state they are in unattractive. Like we can see each other sick and pale with messy awful hair and under eye bags and still find each other just the most gorgeous person ever, because love is weird like that.
2 2 0 0First of all I think that television always presents this image of only "hot" people having "hot" sex but, this isn't true, EVERYBODY can have hot sex , even us average people! Also, always make sure you feel absolutely comfortable with a person before choosing to have sex with them. Feeling comfortable will make it far less awkward. For the first few seconds it will be a little weird but, even non-virgins can get nervous with a new partner so, it's normal.
0 0 0 0This is something you need to settle by yourself first before ever engaging in sex with a guy. Yes, I'm telling you to masturbate! Yes, that means, go buy lingerie and dance & try different positions in your mirror until you become comfortable in your own body :) Good Luck!
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why do you feel not attractive?
having sex is not going the way that your are imagining. you do not have a check list to follow.0 0 0 0Yes your feelings will change when you meet the right guy.
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2 3I think everyone has some anxieties before they have sex.
It will help if you're more comfortable with yourself. and who says your not attractive?1 0 0 0i think it will change... when you find a guy and make out with him..
0 0 0 0Consider being an asexual
0 0 0 0You might feel differently if you met "the right guy".
0 0 0 0Asexual then, eh?
0 0 1 1no I wouldn't say I am
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