Is it weird for a guy to touch a girls boob on the first date?

There is a boy I've been talking to for a few weeks, and we went on our first date the other day. We went to the movies, and he put his arm around me and I sort of laid into his shoulder. So as the movie went on he sort of moved his hand onto my boob. It was just a little awkward but I didn't say anything. And then later, he texted me about it. I just thought this was weird as well because I obviously had no objections so why are you bringing it up in text? And he texted me that I have "big jugs." Am I just overthinking his actions?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I can tell you that most guys your age are not really sure how to act or how you will respond to his touching you etc. Its probably uncharted waters to the both of you. Just take is slow unless something he is doing makes you uncomfortable. Remember in most situations if you are with a respectful you will have most or all of the control. Its your body.

    Please don't rush into anything you are not ready for emotionally of physically. You have your whole life to explore your sexuality. Decisions you make today can and will effect you and those around you for the rest of your lives.

  • Just another reminder of why guys play the love game

    If a girl is into you, she's all yours.

    But yes, you are overthinking it. He likes your boobs, and he touched them, that simple.

Most Helpful Girls

  • personally, the most id do on a first date is probably a kiss at the end and nothing more. you are not overthinking anything, if you felt uncomfortable you should have told him he had no way of knowing.

  • ... What? That's some rude stuff right there, I'd never be okay with that. But hey, if you have no objections, by all means. His comment was a bit crude as well. I would say it's very weird.

  • I went to the movies many time with the boy i like and he has never done that. I don't think that is nice for the first date.

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  • Dump that asshole and find yourself a gentleman.

    • If that's what he does on the first date it's only gonna get worse later on. Don't be with someone that makes you uncomfortable and isn't capable of respecting you.

  • it is indeed weird and out of the line tbh

  • "Is it weird." No.

  • Haha, I think he is just clueless around women. You know if he gropes you you're within your rights to slap him, or tell him no.

  • Hahaha! Sounds like he really enjoyed your boobs! Have you gone out with him again since then? How'd it go?

  • that is kinda creepy if you ask me

    • For white girls? No.