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Took my virginity then blocked me?

well yesterday I met this guy, we planned to meet up. Went back to his blahblahblah. It was goddamn netflix and chill. I didn't even wanna do anything. He kept pressuring like comee onn "you got me hard so something" urghhh. Everyone is going to judge me l o l. Well yeah. I let him take my virginity. He seemed nice. He acted as if he'd see me again at least. I didn't care it was a hook up. Well yeah kinda. But he was a massive prick. He straight up lied. Why the fuck do guys do that? All just to get into my pants. Why the fuck can't I get a nice guy. I'm just seen as some type of whore now probably it sucks. WHAT IS IT WITH ME AND BOYS BLOCKING ME WTF
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I kinda wanna go around and be used by boys after I just gotten my heart broke. But now it's happened it sucks.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm sorry that things turned out like that for you. Especially for a first time. it's usually a special thing, a girls flower, you give to someone you think worthy of it, even if pressured into it, and then the aftermath turns into this. I'm guessing part of you really like the guy, because you went over and watched Netflix with him. Not that you expected that to happen but in his mind he probably, expected some sexual play the second you agreed to come over sadly. Never be pressured into something you're not comfortable with, EVER. This guy used you and harshly blocked you, which would seem as tho he got what he ultimately wanted and decided to let you know it the harsh way by blocking you. In the future, be more selective who you date, bang, or surround yourself with. Nice guys are out there ( usually in the FZ) but out there haha. I hope the guys next sexual adventure is with a girl who's vag has teeth and chomps his ish. Gl on your sitch :).

  • Ah well I suppose when people take life as it comes instead of looking for what you want proactively

    ... well... what comes to your doorstep might not always be what you want... sometimes it's an Encyclopedia Salesman , sometimes a shady indian dude selling persian carpets , sometimes Jehovah's Witnesses who wants "5 minutes" and sometimes playboys who takes your virginity and then fucks off.

    You got the playboy.

    Here's a tip.
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    Sometimes , we need to walk a bit and shop around to look for the best.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You're still young and naive, you'll realize that some guys are like that and they're terrible, terrible people, they take advantage of younger girls and make them believe that they care, but once they have what they want, have sex with the girls, they disappear. It sucks, but there are also good guys out there. I believe that if the guy is good, he wouldn't pressure you into having sex with him, don't make yourself as an easy target, what he did to you was horrible, but you learn from your experience and be careful!

  • He did that because he only wanted a cum dump.

    I live by this rule, it is the best way to avoid users.
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  • That is beyond terrible and that guy is the worst kind of scum. Try to be careful around guys who feel like they might not be serious about you. If all that they can do is think with their lower head it is not worth it.

  • he got what he wanted and i'm sorry that happened to you. you learn something here at least to only go for the guy that you think really cares about you and not some guy who simply wants access into your pants.

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  • Welcome to the real dog-eat-dog world of humans!! I've lost count of how many times I've warned girls to be careful and not do something they'll regret.

    All you can do is shrug your shoulders and tell yourself it's done and dusted.

    Pick yourself up and carry on.

    "Why the fuck do guys do that?" you ask. Simple answer: There are girls like you that fall for the pressure and give in so easily!! Why the fuck didn't you tell him to sod off? Why didn't you padlock your knickers?

  • Here's a mirror.

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    Take a good long look at it and find out who is really the person to blame here.

    When you open the door for a dog, and he ends up shitting all over your carpet, don't forget that YOU were the one who agreed to open the door in the first place. Take some responsibility for that.

  • These fuckers ruin it for everybody else. Burn his goddamn house down !

  • To him you were nothing more than an easy bang, and not to be rude, but you shouldn't be surprised about that if you give it up on the same day you two met. He blocked you because he doesn't want anything more. If you don't want this to happen again I suggest you try spending more time with a guy first to see if he's worth it.

  • The nice guys are a bit more hesitant meeting up right away and take their time more.

  • You just met a guy who hits its and quits it, sadly he also did this to many other girls

  • Aaaand that is why it is wiser to get to know someone a bit more first before getting laid with them. This is something that people who don't see females as respectable equal human beings do. It is a result of people saying girls and guys can't even be friends, so some guys think of women as either a target for affection, or just to bone. You need to weed them out.

  • Why would someone want to block you you're beautiful, anyway, I think he block you cause he maybe taught it was easy to get in you're pants (which it sounds like it is all you need is Netflix and chill no offense) which probably made him think you were a slut ( not calling you a slut btw) and most guys don't like to talk to sluts

  • Hey at first most guys dont do that. I never would. I know its to late now but you can always go somewhere else. This guy is an idiot. Please dont get a wrong picture about men. Also if you need to talk i would

  • You've obviously stumbled upon what I like to call "a total prick" :(
    Maybe you should change where you are meeting guys if you want to find a nice guy.
    Also, if a guy is pressuring you like that, NEVER EVER give in to it. If he's too persistent, that shows what kind of guy he is. A nice guy would be okay with you saying no.

  • I think you got used. He is an asshole and shouldn't have done that if he didn't intend to at least be around for a while. I'm sorry this happened to you but don't feel too bad. You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last girl who gave up her V card to the wrong guy. and having your heart broken seems to be just part of the dating game.

  • "Guys" dont do that, you just encountered a fuckboy and let him in your panties. Probably not the smartest move

  • Guys are wired sexually. Especially guys your age are just pussy crazed. Your best option is to just say no and be firm about it. If they persist, leave. Once you try and leave, if they dont let you, they've got massive legal issues. (And sexual legal issues scares the crap out of guys if their not psychos). lol

  • You got screwed over.

    Choose your guy and get to know the person.

  • Well... , That's terrible. Now you know not to have sex with guys who aren't serious about you.

  • probably you pick wrong guys and have poor judgement of people, but it is definitely not your fault, the guy lied to you probably because if he would have told you the truth you wouldn't have had sex with him. Moving on is all that you could do in this situation, probably the guy will feel sorry later on.

  • Some guys are what society calls the fuckboys. They know how to seduce to get what they want just stay distant from a guy until they do whatever you ask. Make them work for it, be tough.

  • You made a mistake. You were light headed.

  • shouldn't have gave it up SO EASILY then...
    how do you expect him to respect you or treat you good when you dont even respect yourself..

    you ruined your first time which supposed to be the most precious thing...

  • Well he did that because he got what he wanted so why would he stick around? You should never lose your virginity to a hook up but that's just in my opinion. I took my ex's virginity at that age but we got to know each other first and lasted 1 1/2 together.

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