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How wrong is it that I regularly cheat on my girlfriend every other night we dont hang out... Ignorance is bliss?


I believe strongly in what someone doesn't know won't hurt them. Im not saying it's right but at least I take her feelings into consideration. I love my girlfriend she's gorgeous blonde hair blue eyes and so on by the way im part black. My parents racist against whites therefore my girlfriend cannot be seen by them and she knows this. My friends with benefits is my ethnicity and also very gorgeous. But because im 19 I've been pressured to find a girl and as a result if my parents ever want to see pics of my 'GF' I show them the other chick.


My current girlfriend is very insecure and I guess I cheat knowing she'd take me back I know it's bad. I feel like I can't tell her because she jokes that if I ever cheat she'd cut off my genitals and although it's a joke it just shows how mmuch it'd hurt her. My precautions to cheat are: 2 phones, clean clothes so I dont smell of fish or perfume, bath after it. Second phone is off around my girlfriend. Im really smart at cheating and it's fun to get away with it whilst being able to enter your girlfriend on the same day u entered your freind. I know I sound like a bad person but I have no emotional connection to the friends with benefits chick plus since im already cheating I may aswell continue. I feel like cheating is over exaggerated and it's not like my girlfriend is married to me and we have kids. In the future I may dump my girlfriend to protect her from this knowledge. I just hate how the media portrays cheating as the ultimate sin. The only issue I have is the other girl wants more time together to Become closer so she may want a relationship because she doesn't know about my girlfriend lol. Would u ever cheat and is it my fault I like variety because the same pussy gets old to be blunt. by the way what other precautions do I need to keep her from asking questions?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • How a women is treated my the men she encounters affects how she'll behave in life and in her future relationships. The second you hurt her you create the potential to affect how she treats other men from that day forth and that will hurt not only her but her daughter because she'll learn from her mother and her daughter from her and her daughter from her and her daughter too. It doesn't stop with you. It doesn't stop with her. To think that you could avoid damaging the lives of so many people by simply refraining from making commitments until you're actually willing to honor one. But you don't. I don't know if it's because your dumb, weak, selfish, or disrespectful but none of that matters. Life is nothing more than a series of choices. Ignorance isn't bliss ignorance is ignorance. If I shoot a bullet and you never see it coming does that mean it won't hurt when it hits you? I'm pretty sure it will unless it kills you first.

  • Dude that is messed up. I'm not trying to judge you or anything but if she is a nice girl and you like her then why are you doing this? You're taking advantage of her and using her. And I know this is going to sound stupid, but forget what your parents think. They can't run your life or choose who you love. Eventually you will. I'm starting to feel like you're a troll.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You're an awful person. My god, it's one thing to have a polygamous relationship because you love more than one person, but they at least know about it!

    You are lying scum, and people like you make the world a horrible place. If you loved your girlfriend, you wouldn't lie to her about something like this. What if you contract HIV, or get one of them pregnant? Gonna keep hiding it? Herpes, chlamydia, HPV? Even if you use condoms (I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't, you're that kind of disgusting person), they're not always effective. I'd say I hope you get HIV, but that would endanger the other innocent people you fuck with.

    You're one of the people this world would be better without. Do everyone a favour, and drop dead.

    • Calm down. A) I use a Condom. Why is it bad to cheat if she doesn't know thou? Her feelings are what matter so im protecting her in theory

    • Ok, I'm going to make this as simple as I can, because you're clearly very stupid. Cheating is wrong. Do you understand? Or do I need to repeat that? Cheating is very wrong. Add to that your deceit. Lying to someone you claim to love is also very wrong. I will also repeat that condoms are not always effective. With typical use, they are only around 85-90% effective. Another thing that evidently needs to be repeated, is that you are a terrible person, you are scum, and the world would be a better place if you were dead.

  • How about this... dont fucking have a girlfriend! What is wrong with you people? Dont you see that when you ebter a relationship, its because of love and trust and honesty... not betrayal because you wanna get your dick wet? I fucking hate people like you who betray their partner like that! I really fucking hate that, and Your girlfriend deserves waaayyyyyy more. If i were her, i, d kick your nuts and never speak to you again. Your relationship with her is based on lies, fantasy and betrayal... how do you rhink thats acceptable? If you love her, you wouldn't do that to her. So here's my advice... dont be in a fucking relationship!!!

    • Its really really not that hard to figure out. Its actually pretty fucking simple...

  • Wow. Thats really really sad.
    Your poor girlfriend.
    At the end of the day you made a commitment to your girlfriend, and whilst her back is turned your having sex with another person.
    Do the right thing by your girlfriend. She deserves better.
    If you wernt prepared to be faithful you should have never gotten into a relationship.
    I understand your young but you still know the difference between right and wrong.
    How would you feel if the tables were turned and you were in her position?
    What your doing is extremely selfish and you clearly need to grow up.

  • You're a horrible person. You say your girlfriend is insecure? Well fuck, you're not going to help her with that! When you cheat on someone and they find out, because they WILL, they will forever be scared of commitment because they will find it very hard to believe that someone will truly love them. In the future, she'll probably find a much better boyfriend than you, but she won't be able to trust him just because an idiot like you were in her life.

    If you'd rather have sex or kiss someone OTHER than the person you're dating. Don't. Date. Them. ! ! ! !

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  • Troll troll troll

  • People are actually buying this?

    God damn people are naive.

  • You're scum mate...

  • you're the reason most women wonder what the hell their boyfriends are doing when they don't reply for hours.

  • You are terrible human being

  • *face palm*

  • She'll cut off your genitals , so she said me after I fucked her.

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