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My boyfriend gets sexually AWKWARD when we text and im trying to spice things up... He's admitted to me vaginas aren't a turn on but fucking is?


Since I can't give him sex ( We agreed to wait) I feel like im no different to his freinds. It's not that I want sex but im sure he'd appreciate oral. We've been together 2 months.


Me: Someones been wanking naughty naughty boy

Him: I've never masturbated since 13 and I didn't cum lol

Me: Why do you pretend you dont get horny around me... I dont bite babe

Me: I can feel your third leg when im sitting on you... Next time I won't control myself ;-).

Him: Well maybe you should stop sitting on me problem solved.

Me: What would you do if I was spread naked on my bed and I called you a gay bitch?

Him: Id switch on my PS4... Maybe give u the other controller to relieve yourself

Me: Are a Gay? Your a virgin I know your scared I won't bite it off and if you dont like it I'll stop

Him: Look I dont want anything from you sexually but clearly someones hungry for my D.

Me: What if I give without asking your permission... Would u stop me?

Him: look if you want oral sex that's fine but only because you want it

Me: You make me sound like a cunt I want to pleasure my babes but looks like my babes a bitch. I just think id blow your mind...

(He later agreed) he got upset I called him a bitch but I said sorry.


Please analyse his behavior... He's sexual to my face but when things could happen he's such a pussy but I love him. by the way im so adamant to please him... He seems horny all the time and I can see him looking at my chest and ass but isn't brave enough to just grab. He's definetly not a shy person in general or gay either.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • How can I say this... Your babe is a bitch...

    You could rub your pussy on his face and he'd complain you are blocking the TV.
    I am willing to bet that the reason why he made you accept to put off sex was cause he doesn't want it so he thought at least he wouldn't have to explain himself for a while. I am sure he's going to find another reason once the time is up ! If you want to have sex, you'll have to find someone who is not such a pussy about it

  • You called him a "gay bitch" and you expect him to be turned on?
    Where's the logic in this?

    • I expected him to say something dirty and disrespect my body because he needs to teach me respect kinda thing.

    • You need to learn how to sext, there are so many ways to seek a dominant act from your partner and make him react but insulting him isn't one of them unless he liked being degraded.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Hmm... if you say that he's sexual in person, then could it be that maybe he's just not into sexting? It's not a universal turn-on. Maybe ask him if he enjoy receiving those texts from you, because it doesn't really sound like he is, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you to stop it.

  • This would work for someone who is already sexually involved with you so loves to be in a submissive role.

    He's a virgin.

    You're going way too far with someone who has no experience.

    He doesn't know how to respond to your comments and its probably making him uncomfortable.

  • You sound kind of rude. Why don't you leave him alone if he doesn't seem interested. You said you guys didn't want to have sex so just drop it or find a different guy

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  • He doesn't seem to be gay or asexual, since he gets hard when you sit on his lap. However, he said that when he did jack off he didn't cum. He may have problems being able to. That could mean he has an extremely low sex drive. Or something may be holding him back. He may be really religious. Or he may have been raised religious and it may be hindering him. After all, he agreed to wait and said he doesn't jack off. Religion may be making him feel guilt. He seems to have a much stricter understanding of no sex than you do.

  • he sounds religious. or asexual. but not gay, no.

  • he's gay in my opinion

  • Sounds confused...

  • Drop the douche and come after my D

  • He just sounds inexperienced and quite sensitive. I don't think your doing anything wrong.
    Good luck :)

  • hahaha he can unhornify jenna jameson! now thats an interesting... "skill"... .

    • serious notes: 1) he probably hates sexting and finds it ridiculous. amen to that i feel exactly the same. 2) you sound like a biatch 3) you said some heavy shit and you meant it. i wouldn't be that tolerant in his place. 4) i can't tell if he is a hardcore mothafoka that teases the hell out of you and wants to be dominant or an asexual weirdo of some kind.

  • I think he's asexual or gay.

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