Girls, Girls what type of dirty talk (if any) do you like in bed?

Well my girl wants me to dirty talk in bed and take control. I've seen porno's like most men in their mid 20's and when I hear dirty talk I imagine calling her my slut, a dirty whore, and treat her like she's my property. She's my girlfriend and I can't imagine she wants that. So what type of dirty talk should I try that's less degrading?
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  • Sounds like you're both mature and comfortable to have those conversations so you can ask her what her fantasies are, what turns her on when she watches porn, or you can just try a few lines on her. Just try to be authentic. And I personally love being called or treated like a whore during sex. My boyfriend is amazing and loving so in the bedroom, I love when he talks about how I've been out sucking dick and all I deserve is a stiff cock in my mouth or nothing but hard dick knifing my stomach. I don't need it all the time tho and love when he tells me, look how hard you've got me, you gonna paint my dick white with your cum, look how good i look inside you, or you're so fucking beautiful. Hell... now I think you should just go for it. Call her a slut and if she gets offended, tell her very domniatingly that this is what she wanted then bend her over and tell her to imagine he's a stranger and she wants you off her but then realizes she likes it and fuck the holy hell out of that puss to where she forgot she was offered (if she ever got that way in the first place lol)

  • I don't know about other people but the whole "whore" thing turns me on, stuff like "You're my filthy whore" "I'm gonna fuck you like a bitch" I don't know, I'm just crazy lol

    Something less degrading... Huh, maybe this:

    "I'm gonna fuck that pussy so hard"
    "I love your wet pussy"
    "You are making so hard"
    "I'm gonna make you mine"
    "You'll be sore after I fuck you" XD
    "You're so hot/sexy"
    "My cock wants you so bad"

    I don't know, this could work lol

    • She likes when I pin her arms behind her and f*ck her but I never really talked dirty lol.

    • Uff, that's hot man... Try with the first one "I'm gonna fuck that pussy so hard", fuck her in doggy style while you take her arms, you should place one hand in her mouth so she can suck your fingers.

    • Alright I'll try should I smack her ass as well? I never really do cause I didn't k kw she wanted me to be so aggressive before.

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  • Just mention how wet she is, 'look how hard you've gotten me'. It doesn't need to be you calling her a slut or anything, that might make her feel like she's in porn, which not everyone likes. I personally find it hotter when I can just see how badly my boyfriend wants me through his actions being almost completely uninhibited, a bit of biting, pinning me down, etc.. Occasionally saying 'fuck that feels so good' and some grunts adds to the experience, too.

    • Well I pinned her before and held her hands above well I penatrated her. She liked that I didn't talk though.

    • Honestly I find it a lot hotter when my boyfriend just does certain things like that than actual dirty talk. If your girlfriend is into you being dominant though, you can do things like while you hold her/her arms down, tell her there's no touching just yet. If she's into kissing a lot during sex like myself, make her weight for it. As much as she tries, hold her back by the neck and say 'no rushing'. I find that incredibly frustrating yet super hot when my boyfriend does that...

  • It all really depends on your girlfriend. There are people who get off on being called a slut, some get off on being called baby. Ask her what she likes. You really don't want to be in the middle of something and call her something she doesn't like either as it could ruin the mood.

  • i've read some of the comments and some are really quite gud and i like where your going with the hand bend the back etc. but use some thinks like:

    "I'm gonna fuck that pussy so hard"
    "I love your wet pussy"
    "You are making so hard"
    "I'm gonna make you mine"
    "You'll be sore after I fuck you" XD
    "You're so hot/sexy"
    "My cock wants you so bad"
    WhatTheHellAmy said but also while your fucking her (in the position discussed) tell her to tell you what she wants and what she wants you to call her, this way your talking control and you'll know exactly what she likes

  • I like when my fiancé tells me what he's going to do to me. He sounds so confident and sure and it drives me crazy.

  • you could talk about the sex itself. or ur dick and her pussy

  • ... for me it would not be during sex but while watching the guy masturbate. Very very simple things like: "You got so me fucking hard. You gonna make me cum? Huh? You gonna make me fucking cum for you? This is all for you. This is what you're doing to me."
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    I don't know. Stuff like that works for me. I'm an audio person. We could be on the phone, no video chat, no physical contact, and that would do it for me. The ragged gasps, the haggard breathing and grunts...

    Um, excuse while I go have a talk with my boyfriend...

  • Tel her you love how she sucks your cock
    And looks up at you. You love the silouhette of her boobs and the shape of her ass when you grab her from behind or when she rides you. And how her pussy squeezes your cock how soft her pussy is how sweet it tastes. Tell her you only want to give her your cock if she really wants it. Have her beg for it have her show you with her mouth how bad she wAnts it how she will fuck it with her pussy. But no hands no pussy just her mouth.

  • Describe how good she feels, looks, and smells. My husband says things like.
    When he's eating me out he talks about how good I smell a lot and my taste. How warm and wet I am. He basically just describes everything about my V in a reverent tone. When I'm getting close he says things like "that's right baby, cum on my tongue/in my mouth. I want to consume you." During intercourse he tells me how sexy my body is. Whispers loving words and orgasmic things. "God, I love you so much. It's you baby, forever you." That was my favorite line when he asked me to marry him. So he still says in when we make love.
    Just tell her how sexy she is in detail be specific. Describe how she feels. How much only she can satisfy you. It's a huge turn on to know how much we affect him.

  • "Take this cock" "you're so wet" "you're so tight" "I'm gonna fill you with cum"
    I don't know if I'd like being called a slut or whore, but maybe

  • She might actually like the "degrading" talk - for many people, what we like in bed seems contradictory to how we value being treated in the rest of our lives. But talk dirty and take control doesn't have to mean you call her a slut and treat her like an object. It could mean telling her what you're going to do to her and how it feels to you. It could mean just being less "sweet" and more selfish (many of us are turned on by turning on our boyfriends at least as much as we are turned on by our own physical sensations). It could mean holding her by the wrists and pinning her arms above her head in missionary position; it could mean just picking her up and throwing her over a piece of furniture to take her from behind. It could mean "ordering" her to perform a strip tease and then to present herself to you for cunnilingus. Lucky for you, you have a girlfriend who is willing to tell you what turns her on, so just try something you're comfortable with and let her tell you/ show you how she likes it.

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