I have good intentions but I get really horny?

[Anonymous]

I've never had a boyfriend or kissed, and I'm still a virgin. I focus on school, have a good amount of college credits and only get As and Bs.📚 I am modest In dress, but I still get a lot of attention. But I didn't want most of the guys I knew, and the few I did like I was too shy to show interest. Now I'm allowed to date and my body agrees. I long for sex and love, 💋so I know if I get into a relationship and I trust the guy it won't be long..😟 I get aches in between my legs, and I feel this desire running through my body. and I get wet very easily very confused, and I'm trying to focus on school but it's hard.

[AnnKann]

if you mentally feel ready, its your call. but don't go into a relationship solely for sex. i am also assuming you understand the risk of sex. my mother had sex and the first time she did at 17, she got pregnant with me. she used a condom and everything. she was also on the pill when she got pregnant with my sister and continued to use it a couple months into pregnancy because she didn't know. there are also stds out there. so its your call but be SMART

[Anonymous]

It does not only happen to virgins, I'm not a virgin and I have not had sex in a long time and I rarely have sex and I'm single. I don't long for a boyfriend but at the same time I don't sleep around. I mean I think it's natural for every woman to desire a good man who treats her right to satisfy her needs but it's also important to be cautious because there are some men who are out to hurt us and some men want to use us only for sex

[Asker]

True ty

[GamerArtNerd]

There is nothing inherently wrong with sex or enjoying sex. You are born and raised thinking there is but there isn't. Me and my girlfriend both have very high sex drives yet we are still 2 very responsible people with goals and plans for the future ahead of us. Don't let people brainwash you into thinking you are "wrong" for wanting or enjoying sex.

[Asker]

Thank you for putting things in perspective

[GamerArtNerd]

The only problems with sex are obvious. Use protection or contraceptives to avoid STDs and pregnancy. Most people know these things by the age of 11 though.

[Asker]

I am aware of the risks and precautions

[Skadouchebag]

You can date all you want, just don't have sex.

Read what I said in the comments here: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1473295-do-you-think-it-s-inconsistent-to-be-christian-also-do-sexual-things

[RexCatholicissimus]

You've got fingers, don't you?

[tyber1]

Date a guy you're already friends with so you know you can trust them.

[Asker]

The only I'm friends with and whom I'm attracted to goes to a different church. He seemed to like me, but I haven't seen him in weeks so he probably forgot about me

[tyber1]

I doubt it. If he is a trustworthy guy then go for it, going to different churches is not a big deal and I don't think he'd have forgotten you in a few weeks.

[Asker]

I'll make sure I'll talk to him when I see him. Maybe even ask for his social media😈Ty for helping me

[tyber1]

No problem.

[Asker]

its been a month now, and he didn't ask for my numberwhen he could ave. I was very nice and friendly withhim but I guess he might not hv knon I liked him?

[tyber1]

I don't know why you have it in your head that just because a guy likes you he is going to immediately ask for your number. There are guys like that but most guys don't do that. We aren't machines where interest+talking=phone#. If you want him to have it give it to him.

[Asker]

He shares his phone with his bro so I don't know.. Plus I've never met his parents so I don't want to be known as the girl groping over their son

[tyber1]

Who cares if you haven't met his parents? If you want him, let him know. You seem to be looking for excuses not to because you're well aware of the fact that there are more ways to let someone know you are interested than giving them your phone number.

[Asker]

Exactly. I told him he was smart, started conversations... I wasn't sure if he wanted me. He got distant the last few days. My friend said he might have been sad he wouldn't see me again.

[tyber1]

Why wouldn't he see you again?

[Spotme]

Get a vibrator.

[Kik__latinlover127x]

Just try masturbating or having a one night stand with a guy

[Nathand]

big whoop

Its not like your an alien.

[jakeofalltrades]

that's normal, have fun

[Asker]

I'll try 😕

[kiler1000]

check this out: www.jw.org/.../#

[Asker]

Why would God give us sexual desires if we weren't supposed to use them

[kiler1000]

we are... in the marriage arrangement. what you're experiencing is temptation.

[kiler1000]

also, remember that not all desires are from god. think about a child molester, he desires sex with children. is that a desire that god has put into his heart? or of his own fleshly desire?

[kiler1000]

also, see this post of someone who already had premarital sex and what it did: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1647245-would-you-consider-me-as-a-slut

[GrigoriYRasputin]

Just have sex. Remember to use protection.

[Asker]

I can't just have sex. I'd have to find a guy I did't know

[GrigoriYRasputin]

I don't get why you're feeling guilty about your sexual desires. Just embrace them. It's much better to have sexual desire than not having sexual desire.

[Asker]

I guess. The reason why I feel guilty is because my parents tell me that touching myself is wrong😶 but it's hard to function without doing it

[Slycapacity30]

Go for it, but make sure its with someone you truly want to do that with, dont just give it up to any hot guy

[Anonymous]

i feel the exact same way it kinda sucks

[Asker]

Ikr 😐

[Opinion Owner]

but i understand ur pain dude

[Asker]

Ty, don't let it get to you

[Anonymous]

Welcome to life