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I had a wet dream about my sister, is it wrong?

Okay so I'm not sexually attracted to my sister at the moment (not that i might be aware of) but last night i dreamt that i was having sex with my younger sister and during the dream i thought it was really hot and weird at the same time but i came so hard in her, i wokeup and saw a puddle of semen down there. It soudns a little f***ed up to me but now i have developed small feelings for her but this hasn't happened before and i start to understand why my friends always say she's attractive. I hate to have an attraction for her now. Does it sound too weird? how can i get out of this?
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  • It can be startling but it is more common than you'd think. There were studies done in the 1970s in which 10% of people in their early 20s anonymously indicated they'd already had consensual sexual involvement with a sibling. Not all of them were actually attracted (meaning, some did it out of curiosity or whatever) but then there are also many who had an attraction who hadn't acted on it. Acting on it is common enough that I guarantee you and everyone else know someone who is acting on it, but most of the time those involved keep in a secret. Having an attraction is even more common and there is nothing wrong with having an attraction, and there's nothing wrong with consensual sex, even in these cases. Nobody can provide a single reason making it wrong they consistently apply to relationships. Rather, it is usually their personal disgust that forms their opinion, and someone else's disgust should have no control over love or sex between consenting participants. I personally know siblings raised together who now live as spouses, married in every way except the law. Eh are happy together. Some of them are attractive, intelligent, and successful, and yes, most children born to such relationships are healthy.

  • So long as you don't focus on it, masturbate to it, incorporate it as an ongoing fantasy, in other words feed the fetish, then you'll get over it.

    And when I say don't focus on it, I also mean don't beat yourself up over it continually. Even feeling guilty about something and hence focusing on it, can cause the libido to get fixated on something.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Go ahead and flame me, down vote me, whatever. This doesn't apply to me personally, but I know it's more common that people want to think or admit.

    marriage-equality.blogspot.com/.../...raction.html

    I don't care if you disagree or down vote me, but if you attack me, I will report and block you. It is what it is.

    Some people think being gay is "messed up" etc. etc. Morals are nothing but OPINIONS. Nothing else. Period. Live and let live.

    Don't beat yourself up dude.

    • this is so pathetic

    • Cool story weirdo who just messages me earlier about how to get a girlfriend... you're blocked.

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  • You can't really control your dreams. Sometimes they can seem so real, though. Enough to waken some unknown desires that you wouldn't normally have. give it some time, and the desire will most likely fade into the background.

  • Your animal brain doesn't really bother itself with who's who. It just sees attractiveness and acts on it. Then your reason comes into play and stops it in it's track. In your dreams, there is no reasons for your reason to stop anything. You can dream up the most filthiest, unfair, taboo things you want and it won't hurt anybody. And it's ok really. Don't judge yourself on what you dream about. Judge yourself on your actions.
    Now you are confused. Just make the difference between what is real and what isn't. You fell in your love with the version of your sister who was in your dream, not the one in real life. I say you need to find a new crush to make you forget your sister...

  • This is way to weird

  • People don't control their dreams. I wouldn't really think anything of it if I were you. Just don't think about it in real life at all ever.

  • That's messed up. You should get a girlfriend asap.

  • Do not dwell on it, think other thoughts and you will be fine.

  • Question:
    Have you always lived with her, was there ever any long period of time you did not live with her?
    The way human psychology defends against incest is that it makes all people unattractive with whom you have lived together non-sexually for several years (usually six years AFAIK).

    Just keep in mind several things:
    -if you are not related by blood it is ok
    -if you are related by blood, yes then it is weird
    . incest is proven to be unhealthy in many ways
    -never act on those feelings

    • We have been living together

    • Then it is most probably just a temporary thing. Stay in good relations with your sis, but repress the weird feelings.

  • yes. it is sound too weird. it is called incest... consult a doctor or psychologist to aware that...

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  • Weird? Nah. Your sisters human and despite what society says people do feel attraction to thier relatives sometimes even thier own parents. We all have this feeling of uncomfortableness about it because it's ingrained in us. Having a kid by your sister or parent would increase your chances of having birth defects by a ridiculous amounts. If say some humans years ago magically had a gene that made them super attracted to thier own family they'd eventually accumulate a ton of defects and they'd die off pretty soon. Those that found thier family a little off putting to be sexually interested in would flourish. Which is exactly what happened and that's why we all cringe a little at the thought of being with a family member. But beyond that were still humans. We still like butts and boobs and pretty faces and if your relatives have these its not completely ridiculous to find them attractive. I still suggest simply letting that feeling pass without acting on it and focusing your attention elsewhere but don't feel bad about yourself for feeling the way you feel. I've never had a sister but I have plenty of cousins that men fawn over, a few have been given acting roles solely based on looks, and two are models add on to this that they're all pretty smart and fun and easy to talk to about anything so I totally get were your coming from. You learn to deal with it. It happens to girls too lol.

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