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What does it means if a guy calls out your name while he climaxes?

I have a friends with benefits and during one of our "sessions" he called my name out really loud as he climaxed. What does that mean? Does he have feelings? Just curious.
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Ok, so update lol, lately he's been calling me "babe" or "baby" and after sex he loves to cuddle wether we're in bed or sitting on the couch or wherever. In public now he likes to kiss and do PDA. He strokes my hair in bed and kisses me especially on my lips and forehead. I told him that friends with benefits don't do this stuff and he said it's fine. By the way, he's my first friends with benefits.
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  • You are reading way to much into this.
    You seem to be one of those females who has gotten into a friends with benefits situation and has grown feelings for the guy (as expected) but you want to believe he has feelings for you but I can assure you he does not. We do NOT grow feelings for a girl just because she lets us have sex with her, if you allow yourself to be the kind of female who gives out sex without effort, then we write you off as that kind of girl. We don't buy the cow when the milk is free.

    Him calling your name is simply him calling your name. (It's weird and a bit douchey)

  • He probably does have feelings but it may be that he just associates your name with thunderous orgasms.

    • My story is very similar to this girl's story! I had told this guy that sleeping over, cuddling, hanging out, him being okay to see my dad whenever he'd (my dad) come to visit, is not friends with benefits behavior. He told me," yes it is, it's okay". The problem is, with my little story, is that he's married, which I found out after the fact via him telling me out of the blue. Him and I have sex almost every day and the other days we just hang and go to sleep. He has even told me one time, after calling me mi amor/ de love, that he really likes me (additionally, one time on the phone he said te quiero/ I love you). This all came as somewhat of a surprise to me. Particularly because this is the first time anyone has told me this. There are a-lot of things that he does that make me wonder if he more than likes me, but since this situation is a messy one, I figure that, that's just what it is... messy. After these 3 months I've grown to really care for him, but I don't want to cross the line more than what I've already have, even though sometimes I want to. I just think it would damage our friendship and the memory of having my first time with someone.

    • @Naschaly You're in a tough spot. One thing is for certain: leaving one relationship for another is almost certain to end badly so if he talks about a divorce to be with you, don't do it. I'd suggest you tell him, if it cums, er I mean comes, up that if he leaves her, it's because he needs to leave her and you won't see him for six months or however long you think he'll need to get over his divorce and past the rebound period.

    • Lol Thank-you for your advise. I will take it to heart if ever the situation should arise.

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  • it doesn't mean anything. he's just enjoying the sex and wants you to know it. some guys do that, and some dont. just like women. some of us are very verbal and others are not. he might do that with all the girls he's with, doesn't mean he has feelings for them. its just sex.

  • No correlation between feelings and him calling out your name.
    All it means is he watches porn, and that's where he picked up the idea of calling your name as he finishes.

  • ... means you were there...
    just be glad fuck buddy knows your name ;)

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  • Depends. If he thinks of you in just a sexual way, then calling out your name will make the orgasm better for him. At least you know he thinks about you.

  • ELIZABETH!!!

    • APRIL!!!

    • ADRIAN !!!
      https://youtu.be/t1yzIeBRh5o?t=35s

      :-P

    • @Spotme MISS HITLER!!! @JuicyBrain I COULDNT GET PAST THE 24 SECOND ADVERTISEMENT!

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  • It could mean anything if he's not your boyfriend

  • Laaaannnaaa!!!

  • he is thinking about you while climaxing

  • Why do girls insist on trying to attach feelings to anything intimate?

    But, no, that alone does not mean he has feelings. No words or actions during sex guarantee any emotional attachment.

    • It seems weird to be honest lol. I'd never do that.

  • Sounds cheesy.

  • I've called out pornstar names by accident during climax. It doesn't mean I care about them, it just means I'm thinking about their bodies.

    • Why the hell would you be thinking about a porn star during sex?

    • @SweetBrownEyes to finish, duh. I think about hotter chicks than the girl I'm having sex with all the time to try and finish quicker.

    • What an asshole

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  • mARTHA STEWART!

  • Oh we wants babies with you.

  • Both. Neither. You're over thinking it.

  • He's trying to be like a porn star

  • You must share his mothers name...

    I don't think it means much really, other than him knowing your name.

  • My guess is, he was just trying to make it interesting. He may have thought it would've turned you on. I personally wouldn't like it. Weird lol.

  • It mean nothing other then he was thinking of u during sex, and that I did a good job

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