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How do I reassure my boyfriend that he is big enough for me?

I love my boyfriends penis size. I don't know what the length is, but its perfect for me and i want him to realize that he doesn't need a bigger one to satisfy me. He has to use magnum condoms bc he has a little more girth than average and i always want to put in on for him and when i do, it feels kind of tight tbh. But he always has to bring up "if i had a bigger dick, would you like that better?" He knows he has a big penis, and always dirty talks when we have sex saying stuff like "yea you like my big dick?" Over and over agin which i dont mind. But the thing is, i think he secretly doesn't think he has a big penis and he just wants me to believe he thinks he does. I think he is very insecure about it bc he always brings up what if situations... And he thinks i can't cum bc of his size and if he was bigger i would be able to. I know thats not the case tho and i try to tell him i love his size. What can i do besides telling him (which doesn't work) that his penis is perfect?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This is a tricky situation, I say this because once a guy has it in his head (no pun intended) that he isn't "big enough" it can seem impossible to convince him otherwise. My wife and I have a similar situation going on where I too seem to feel inadequate at times. The best advice I can give you I actually read on here, and that is that even though you like his size, what really matters more is that it's his penis, and that it's attached to him. In other words you are really happy with the whole package (again no pun intended) The fact remains that even if he were say smaller you would still like it because it's his and that is what you like him as whole person from top to bottom, front to back, the whole person. Perhaps this will help put his mind at ease some. Whenever I get insecure I remind myself that if my wife were that unhappy with me (penis size included) she would have left me a long time ago. Relationships are a LOT more than just physical measurements. Try that and see if that helps. :-)

  • I'm also insecure about my penis size but that's only because I'm a virgin, when I get to test it out I'll feel better. I don't know what his problem is since he's using magnums, he's probably thinking he's not long enough rather than not big in general, but he needs to realize length is pretty useless, it's all about girth. You need to express how much you love his dick, just basically stroke his ego whenever you are having sex or just during everyday life, when he says "do you like my big dick" respond positively, but don't just say "Yes" use your imagination. I know if a girl told me she loved my dick I'd feel pretty good :P

Most Helpful Girls

  • worship his penis. I know a lot of girls are going to disagree with me but you really have to treat his penis as a separate being. kiss it, make out with it, talk to it. I know it sounds weird but men love it. at least my husband does. just grab his dick randomly time to time while your walking around. When you're about to go to sleep, hold his penis during sleep and sleep with it in your hand the whole night. Rub your face on it when preforming oral. just give his penis love, kisses and face rubs and ignore him time to time. just focus on his dick.

    • Can a man get jealous of his own dick lol.

  • It's a little edgy situation but just tell him, that no matter what size he is, you will love him. and quite frankly, you should tell him the difference between a small penis and a big penis and ask him to calm down about it. Maybe after seeing the difference, he'd understand that he is not "small".

  • Express ur feeling.. Just tell him tat u like his size.. Express for sometime that u can't take it in as is was big. All the matter is the way of u express..

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  • He might have a problem with his body image... but that's too complicated for me...

    When he talks about the size, try indicating that if it got any bigger there would not be room for it. Playing sore, however, might make him feel guilty, which is not good either. Instead you could tell him to enter you slowly sometimes to indicate that you need to adapt to his size or tell him that you can feel it stretching you.
    You say he believes that his penis is too small to give you an orgasm. If you are about to orgasm while he is inside you, you can tell him. Make him aware that you are almost there and give his penis a few compliments.
    Reassuring him when not having sex is also a good idea. This will let him know you appreciate his size all the time.

  • Do this once: stop in the middle of sex and complain that his dick is too big an it hurts. Or you could just moan more often.

  • Pretend you are sore the next morning, or the next day whisper in his ear how you still feel stretched, or tell him how you enjoyed his good pounding from the night before. Basically he need reassurance during non sexy times so the confidence can build up before sex.

  • When he is taling dirty like, do you respond to that?

  • Just tell him the truth and how you feel... but if he is still insecure then it becomes his problem. Do not keep telling him. He has to learn to deal with it himself.

  • Say him to be prudent because it hurts when he hits the cervix.

  • fuck a person who has a smaller dick than him... and tell him you were satisfied... he will get it..

  • This is an example of how porn can rot people's brains.

  • Well every guy wishes he has a bigger dick

  • just tell him play with it and say you are really big!

  • Why Guys Think A Bigger Dick Is Neccessary To Satisfy A Woman Is Beyond Me.
    The Most Women Are About 5" - 5.5" Deep, Which Means If A Guy Is Bigger All He Is Doing Is Pounding Her Cervix, Which Can Be Uncomfortable And Painful.
    Drop Your Ego, Drop Your Insecurities And Accept Your Size.
    If You Are Big, Do Not Jack Hammer Your Woman, Chances Are You're Hurting Her More Than Pleasuring Her.
    I Am 5.5" Long And The Perfect Size For My Wife, Sex Is Amazing And She Cums Multiple Times, She Loves My Size Because I Am Just Big Enough To Give Her The Most Pleasrurable Sex Of Her Life!
    If I Was 6" Long Sex Would Be Painful, She Would Not Enjoy It At All.
    Love Your Small Dick Guys, It Does More Than You Think!

  • They guy's packing magnums. Just point that out and he'll be fine.

  • The dirty talk about his dick turns him on and he wants you to participate in that. He may have an insecurity about his size, and to be open about it with you is very intimate for him, and since he brings it up a lot, he wants to be open with you. Be fun and flirty about it bc its not a serious issue. Next time he talks like that say cute things abouthis dick and say you want to measure it and see how big it gets etc etc. This is what he wants you to do.

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