Should I take it as a compliment if my boyfriend cums fast?

He told me that I'm sexy and that my pussy is nice and tight.
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We've only sex about 3 times.
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He's in his 30's.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i suppose you could take it as a compliment, sure. It could also mean he's just selfish or clueless (or both). Personally, I don't want a girl who wants to be good at sex - I want a girl who wants me to be good at sex. Because then I know she wants sex for her own sake, not just for mine.

  • You could take it as a compliment to begin with, but after, you won't enjoy sex that much if he cums too soon.. so whenever he is getting close to ejaculation, go back to foreplay, should solve the problem.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he can never hold it longer, it might be because he just can't help it. Depending on the situation, you begin to notice if it's indeed because the situation is extremely hot or if it's because he always cum fast because that's how he is

  • some guys cum really fast, as long as he finsishes you one way or another, its not a bad thing :)

  • Yasssssssssss

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  • Sure if you want to be egotistical but really it sounds lame like he just has a lack of self-control and skill. Who wants to be with a guy who always cums fast before you can really even get into it

  • You should take it as a compliment the first few times. After that, he needs to step his game up.

  • in most cases: yes

  • No he's saying that to cover for himself.

  • Rub a delay cream on his penis before he enters. It will numb him and allow you both to enjoy it.

  • Well ya, it is a compliment

  • He likely is disposed to finish fast, but it sounds like he's really attracted to you too.

  • Some guys are highly aroused and if he cums fast for you it was good sex

  • If it happens once in a while, then yes, it's a huge compliment.

    If it happens the majority of times, then he has a problem.

  • Yes. Why think negative?

  • Yasssssssss

  • You must be hot as hell.

    • Of course some girl has to down vote a comment like that, shame.

    • It's sad that a girl actually feels threatened by that.

    • Im always getting down voted. Just one is nothing. I've had more than 30

  • The faster it is, the hotter the queen. ..

  • Yes, the better the sex the faster the cum

  • yes but also note that he probably sucks in bed and won't get any better soon

    • WARNING ! Bitterness detected!

    • Cumming to fast in bed means you suck in bed pretty much at least where I cum from pun intended

  • NO YOU SHOULD NOT

  • That's a compliment for sure. Good p***y will do that.

  • LMAO, yah you should.

  • Yeah, you should.

  • no he is bad at sex can't hold his cum he is a preejaculator ha ha you will have a terrible sex life need to dump him move on..

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