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What was your first time like?

I'm just curious/scared/excited/nervous about what my first time will be like. What was your first time like? Please describe in as much detail as you can. Any advice, suggestions, or experiences are helpful! For girls: Tell me about your first time. Did it hurt? Did you bleed? Was it good? Was he gentle/rough? How long did it last? For guys: Tell me about your/her first time. Did it hurt her? Was there any blood? Was it good? How gentle/rough were you? How long did it last? I want as much detail as you are comfortable with sharing, you can even post anonymously if you want. Thank you for the help!
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  • I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I must admit that I had thought about it, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

    My boyfriend said he had a very special present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. Eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away.

    He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different.

    He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

    Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in.

    I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

    I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

    I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously.

    I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's first time could be.

    Afterwards, I felt sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, a bit of regret, but also happiness, satisfaction, and a myriad of other feelings. It was all something of a jumble.

    It was a wonderful first experience, romantic and tender.

  • I kind of planned it without him knowing. My mom, sister & grandma were out of town so I felt like it was the perfect time. I told my mom my cousin was going to stay with me so I wouldn't be alone & she actually trusted me with her. I told her to stay with me but I was going to pick her up after I finished doing what I had to do. I lied to my mom & told her she would be to the house before it was dark outside. Anyway I wanted to have sex, not because I felt like I had to or because everyone else was doing it. I just wanted to have sex, plus I was leaving for college soon so I wanted to lose it to someone that I have been talking to for awhile rather than to someone in college I barely know. Anyway I texted him to come over, he came. I had on a tank top, my lace cheetah panties & short comfortable shorts. To show him that I want to have sex without actually saying I want to have sex lol. We were watching a movie on tv for a couple of minutes, then we started talking then kissing. He put his hands in my pants & he started fingering me. He took my shorts & underwear off & he pulled his pants down & bam, he stuck it in me so fast & rough. It hurt so bad & he was really rough. I guess he was just so excited lol. We started around 8pm. After awhile I turned the tv off so it could be dark then we tried to do doggystyle but for some reason he couldn't put it in & omg he almost put it in the wrong hole. I had to turn the tv back on for light. I had to stop after 30 minutes because my mom was calling lol then we went at it again. I was on top mostly the whole time. I guess he was tired from round 1 lol. I had hit my head on my headboard, it was so embarrassing. After another 30 minutes I had to stop again because my cousin was calling me, she was supposed to be staying at my house that night, I told her I would be there in 30 minutes to pick her up. Then round 3 I was on top again then the last couple of minutes he was on top. I had to stop in the middle because my mom & cousin were calling once again. I had to hurry up & shower. Omg my vagina was so sore & swollen. I was about to cry while trying to clean it in the shower. After the shower I went to my room to get dressed & he wanted to keep going but I couldn't, I have to go pick up my cousin, it was getting late. I dropped him off & when I got back home I noticed blood on my bed & he texted & asked me if I was bleeding because he had blood on his shorts. So embarrassing & then he was mad bcus

    • (Continued) I gave him blue balls since I couldn't finish. Well he wasn't really mad he was just saying he wish we would've finished. I was sore for the next couple of days, I could barely walk. I had to literally put ice down there, it helped a lot. After a week the swelling went down & the soreness. My advice is to make sure you stretch before or your legs & thighs will be sore, make sure you're really wet & have him slow down & take it slow because it will make you become dry & it will hurt really bad. Also put a towel underneath so you won't get blood anywhere. Shower before & take a nice hot bath after. Put some slow jams on, maybe light some candles. Make sure you do foreplay to get you turned on. & most importantly use a condom. Make sure he has about 2-3 just in case he's a quick pumper. I didn't & I was so scared. I've never been so anxious/happy to have my period lol. Also make sure it's special, I wish mine was a little more romantic & intimate.

    • Omg, I'm doing that, I told my best friend I want to have sex with a friend of ours and we are kind of planning it without him knowing but since it's my first time I kind of feel like I should tell him, just to make sure everything goes as good as possible. And also I'm not 100% sure about him not being a virgin, I mean, I suppose he is not bc he is hot and that stuff and I've hooked up with him and seems experienced, I also gave him a handjob but the thing is we never talk about the stuff we do, so I don't really know how is his sex life and that's basically what I'm worried about, oh and also I'm hoping he brings the condoms...

  • It did hurt, we didn´t have a clue what we were doing. I did bleed. It didn´t last long as i told him to stop cause it hurt.
    To be honest i thougth to myself " this is it?"
    Just a piece of advice. Don´t build it up in your head. Sure it´s beautiful somehow to share that with someone you care about, but It won´t change you in any way, you won´t feel any different, and there won´t be any fireworks.
    Just try to breathe, and relax, i know is nearly impossible, but just don´t put any sort of pressure on yourself.
    Good luck (:

  • Mine actually didn't hurt and I felt no pain. It felt good right from the time he entered and I even had a few orgasms.

    • I didn't bleed either

Most Helpful Guy

  • It was summer break. I had been saving up from my part time job all semester and I took my girl to Sydney for a holiday. I got us a hotel right on Darling Harbour, but being a student, it was just a basic room. As we were checking in though, the concierge bumped us up to the penthouse suite because they just got booked by a big tour group... we unloaded our bags in the room, and... well... we didn't leave the room that weekend except for meals.

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