Girls, My boyfriend is really big and he destroyed my pussy the other night?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is really big and he has a high sex drive and he destroyed my pussy the other night & I still haven't recovered & I'm still not ready for his big cock but it's the weekend and we are normally at it every weekend so I don't want him to think that I'm not in to him anymore or that I'm haveing an affair so what should I do and how can I let him know that I just need to let my pussy recover and that I'm still very much in to him?

[Anonymous]

Well, every weekend does peter out after awhile... ask me for the joke that goes with this mostly true observation... so after awhile, this becomes a non-issue.

Although virgins may complain about this after a wedding night where THEY over indulged more than him (most cases) ... since you are going after it regularly, this case is more about "his high sex drive" = not nearly enough foreplay! Not every foreplay method can be metered/compared/timed to others, only the results for you = soreness.

You tone in writing is all about pleasing him, even a bit proud of his manhood (though not intending to boast). Guys under 30 have to be trained that... if momma's not happy, NObody's happy, so look/learn/listen and apply all that to being a better lover! Don't let him be just another hung guy, teach him to use it as a better lover! You CAN do this in a loving way.

[kaylaS91]

Should suffice if you just tell him you're sore, and would like to wait a day or two before sex again. You could ask him to be a bit gentler next time too, or spend more time on foreplay so that you get adequately lubricated as well turned on which will actually decease the amount of tension in your lady parts, making them more 'accommodating'.

[Anonymous]

Been there. I just gave him tons of blowjobs and was honest as to why I don't want regular sex. He was pretty proud of himself in some ways haha and felt bad in others. Relationships are all about communication so just be honest! Good luck!

[Anonymous]

" we are normally at it every weekend" Troll.