To me, the hardest part was to actually believe this could be enjoyable for him, since I would find it disgusting to be in such a position. No matter howmuch I like to dominate, I still care for my partner's pleasure. And hence I think about him during the things we do. Getting used to have him at a position that I would hate myself took some time. Today it is totally fine and seeing how much he likes everything my body can cover him in, I am comfortable in that position. For me, that comes along with a good portion of self-aggeandizement. If I would not believe I am kind of supernatural to him, I still could not enjoy it.
When being in that position, it is the sense of power that thrills me. That I can make him like something that is so disgusting. That he actually wants to be surtounded and flooded by my juices. That I control whether he is comfortable or passing out.
But I hate how wearing it is to keep myself up so he does not get smothered.
I really prefer him to be tied to the bed when I do this, so I can take rests on his chest without giving him the feeling of freedom. Then I use my fingers to make it hard for him to breath, before I continue "queening".
I find it hard and mostvtimes impossible to orgasm in that position. Another reason to have him tied. When I am tired of that position, I can take what I want another way without having to ask...1 3 0 0Thats actually the biggest complain women have or the complain that comes up the most. The "I have to get myself up" part also a lot of complains about the "I need to make myself lighter, thats why I hover part". Thats why I always say THIS! IS! NOT! NESSESARY! XD but a lot of you dont know. Make a game out of it. A game about him getting air. There can't be something more turn off than the woman standing up, because I know its not comfortable FOR HER and also it takes away the immersion FOR ME. So let me help you with this: you dont stand up, he just moves his head to the side for a moment, and the fun part is you can actually try to stop moving his head to the side you won't be able to but its fun because that way its even more believable, YOU JUST can't the head can always get free. Even if his whole body would be tied up but his head, this way he ALWAYS gets air. So basically you dont give him air, he gets it himself and you're still comfortable. Welcome.
... oh and just in case you do, dont try to make yourself lighter by hovering, thats uncomfortable for you anyways. You won't find anyone who is into facesitting who would want that. We are into facesitting because WE WANT to feel the womens weight and the pressure of her weight. Unless you're a 500 pounds monster, what you are definetly not (Your Avatar) you can just sit with all your weight. We won't die from that.
Hum, gotta try out. Hope I realize when he does move his head and "steals" air. Not only to calm myself, but to count and make it a game. 4 gasps? 20 push ups to become a fitter sex-slave! Lol
My ex wanted me to do this and I felt insecure about it and couldn't do it
But my friends with benefits asked and said he wanted me to do that And for the first time I was excited and it did turn me on.
So maybe depends on the guy and how you feel about him?
I'm not sure though as I loved my ex a lot and we were together for a long time but I couldn't do anything like that before or with him0 1 0 0I see. So the less important the person Is to you, the more are you willing to try stuff like that. Did I understand this right?
And also, you wrote that it made you exited and turned you on for the first time. Why? That was basically what I asked. What happened in your head that this made you exited? I made a full
.. explanation of what happens in my head.
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I too love Facesitting and lite smothering I like the feeling of her cheeks on my face and most of all the fragrance of her ass! It's realy sexy and hot and makes for great 4 play. I also like going down from behind aswell.
0 1 0 0Ok. Why? Why do you like it? What happens in your head?
Well I have an ass fetish. I'm attracted to the female ass and want to worship it kiss lick smell it. I feel that when she sits on my face and I can lick pussy and breath ass it gives me satisfaction and there's no place I would rather be. I have asked my wife to fart on my face when she is sitting on it or when in licking her from behind. She has done it twice and it was amazing! I think the fact that that she's controlling my breathing and comfort with her ass is kinky and hot! And when I say breathing I don't mean fresh air if you know what I neen?
What about you?
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