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Why so many insecured people about average penis?

I'm very surprised that A LOT of topics here are related to penis size and insecurities. I mean I'm average five and a half myself and never had any complaint and I have no problem with it. It's sad to see so many men worrying about being absolutely NORMAL but always being insecured because they're not 7 or 8 inches down there. It's all in mens' heads and they want to be bigger to look "more masculine" (a crappy social thing in my opinion, same with women and their boobs). If average guys read this, your size is normal (NOT small) and it can get the job done and be perfectly fine! Ask women they will tell you. Most women would be satisfied and happy with average size (there is nothing wrong with the word "average", it means medium). Sure some women prefer bigger BUT you can't blame them, it's their choice, everybody has preferences so please don't judge or be mad about that and respect them). Some prefer big, some prefer smaller but the average penis length is a GOOD size for MOST women and NOTHING to be ashamed of. The name of the game is CONFIDENCE! I wish some women here could tell you the same thing but i think they are so TIRED of those hundreds of questions that they will just joke around and "play" with it. You can't blame them because it was asked so many times it's becoming annoying! Be proud of who you are, be proud of your NORMAL size and make your woman happy! You don't need a porn dick to make a woman happy. Put that sh*t outta your head and be confident. Women love men with confidence. Ask them! Why am I posting this? Quite frankly, it really makes me sad to see so many insecured people while they have NO REASON to feel bad AT ALL. Embrace your life, your chance to be in this world, be proud and make your woman happy. Be confident, be great and don't let things you can't control dictate your life and your happinness. Maybe just maybe this topic will at least help ONE person. It it does, then it's a good thing.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well it's something you can change even less than your looks and people tend to focus on things they can't change rather than those they can. Maybe it gives them an excuse for not making an effort. Both sexes do this just about different things.

    Lots of guys say big tits don't matter but every girl knows the same woman with a bigger chest will turn more heads and get more attention. It might not matter to everybody but it matters enough to make a noticeable difference.

  • Great post man. All of us get insecure about our bodies. Men. Women. I know I do both with my penis size at times and my body in general. It's why I work out. Though that's more so that I appeal to myself more than others. That's the hardest thing man. It's not so much trying to impress others as it is to impress yourself. Most people are supportive. Finding a way to overcome your own self doubt is hard. I mean the saying is true "You're your own worst critic."

Most Helpful Girls

  • im glad you posted that :) maybe someone will really get some kind of help from it.
    its sad that people are so insecure with their bodies. espcially things that cannot be changed.
    more power to you :D

    • Thank you for your positive comment :)

    • Been saying it for years dude. Just goes to show who has true confidence. People like us are few and far between. I hear even Special Forces dudes, once they lose their cocks, feel like lesser men and whatever else. It's crazy.

  • Very well said. Not every woman cares about the size. As long as they know how to work & please her, then it really doesn't matter.

    • Plus average is a good size anyway so why worrying...

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  • No woman wants a pathetic horribly sh*tty, useless dick, and no one worth respecting is satisfied with mediocrity or being a C- at anything. It pisses me off when people try to prop up uselessness on a pedestal. It's how we get a society of failures and lazy bums and losers to begin with. When just showing up to work is considered "exceptional" and worth praise nowadays. I detest and loathe mediocrity.

  • 30, virgin, small penis. Ending my life sounds sufficient. Why live with a average penis? Those 7 or 8 men you mention, I wish I was one.

  • I am not and I have never been insecure about my penis size. I am about 6.5 inches hard I have been with many girls I never got any complaints about my size! It is what I got and I know how to use it!

  • I’m 7 and it doesn’t even matter because although women like the look of me, I can rarely connect with them on an intellectual or conversational level. There are very few true intellectual women out there. So dick size isn’t everything, plenty of men with smaller than I have way, way more sex.

  • It's just that I feel like anything under 10 is small I'm a little ways above average but so self conscious I feel like no girl would want it thinking its to small ik it will be able to get the job done but can't feel good intell I know she is crazy for it (by the way no girlfriend so no getting past the feeling) and most of the people with these feelings have never been with a girl befor

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