My sister got me nude and left me embarrassed, What I do to her?

[Anonymous]

My other sister is 2 year older to me, and because she is favorite of my mom at home, she always instruct me at home, i usually don't touch her stuff but last weekend two of my neighboring friend came to my home and we were getting bored so i went in her room and i got her laptop, we just watched some movies and pics what was in her laptop, coincidentally one of my friend opened a file and it had pics of my sister, in which she was wearing very less clothes and had kept it secretly in her laptop, i just got back the laptop from my friend and was going to put it back to her room, meanwhile my sister came home and saw me touching her laptop, she started yelling and shouting on me and my friends left the room, next day one girls from my neighbor came to meet me, she is my school friend and i like her too, i was having shower and when i done i came out wrapping a towel on my waist, suddenly my sister took her to me and without saying any word to me, she pulled off my towel and pulled down my underwear in front her, she did it so quickly that i could not even react, she got me nude in front her and i felt very much ashamed and enraged, i complained mom about this but she just chided her mildly, but i am feeling very much humiliated, what do i do to her?

[Anonymous]

The laptop thing was a really bad idea, and I’m guessing you feel really bad so.. As long as you don’t do it again, but I’m not sure if your sister feels bad.

I would:

Nothing, ignore her and don’t do anything for her or her any more. Having anybody like that is really destructive and if no ones going to do something about it then don’t show her your vengeful side cause she will never regret it and never learn, show her your withdrawn side. Show her that she has no control over you. Tell her you were sorry for going through her stuff and won’t do it ever again, but be the bigger person and for now withdraw. Not to just hurt them but for your sake just until you feel you can trust her and the family (for not taking reprocussions)

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry it with her* not or her

[CuriousityKTheCat]

Moments like that your stunned with shock but now you know, next time, punch her where it’ll hurt. Maybe she needs to know that you mean well. And deep down that you two love each other and have to have each other’s backs or else no one else will. It does sound like an awful experience but maybe just try picking on her with the fact that she wanted to see your sexy body THAT bad, make it funny

[CuriousityKTheCat]

Be proud of your body. I’m sorry your own sister put you through that embarrassment..

[Onlyinit4fun]

Well her reaction was way over the top but you seriously shouldn't have gone through her laptop and allowed your friend to browse through her personal pictures. That's disgusting behaviour to. I can understand why she was so pissed of. But again her reaction was way overboard. I would have just kicked your ass for it. But really really kicked your ass.

[Asker]

i said i didn't know hat type of her pics she keeps in her laptop, so what my friends did was a mistake, but when i saw i asked my friends not to reveal this to anyone else, but what my sister did was not a mistake, she just take a very nasty revenge, when she tried to pull down my underwear i tried to protest and i fell down and i got hurt physically too.

[CuriousityKTheCat]

Don’t stick to her level. That was petty of her. She might be embarrassed of the photos and wanted to show power. I would talk to your mom about the situation and ask for advice. Sisters fight. My sister and I had a full blown fist fight once where my dress got ripped, I was young, I forgot what it was over but I’m glad my mom let us brawl it out. Whatever it was. Gotta have family’s back. She probably didn’t know if you were going to sabatosh her with the photo or not.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Be the bigger person and move on from it. Vengeance serves no purpose beyond causing a war.

[Asker]

being a girl you support girls but she must be punished for this not just some chiding.

[RJGraveyTrain]

It has nothing to do with me being a girl and I don't support what your sister did. I believe in being a good person, and if you don't like the way somebody treats you, you are no better by behaving in the same way as they did. You lose your right to be hurt and upset about an action that isn't right if you turn around and do the same thing or something even worse.

[Anonymous]

Isn't that sexual assault/harassment? If this were a guy doing it to a girl I think people would be flipping tables. Why is everyone being so chill about this?

I'm not sure if you can take legal action. Best just steer clear of her and try to move on, she's a shitty person.

[Asker]

yes, this is the same thing which i am asking, my mom just let it go and she just chided my sister very lightly, and i don't think if my sister has any regret, and the way she did this was like a assault.

[baconandcheese]

Honestly your sister seems horrible. You saw those pics on accident , she was did it on purpose. Don't try to get revenge, but deal with it maturely, unlike her.

[Asker]

if i was alone at home than i would not have minded this, but she got me nude very very badly in front a neighbor girl and it causing me so much anger and frustration, that i don't want to let her go.

[OlderAndWiser]

Actually, it sounds like you enjoyed the experience but don't want to admit it.

[Asker]

No way

[CuriousityKTheCat]

That’s inappropriate dude.

[OlderAndWiser]

@CuriousityKTheCat Are you referring to my comment, his behavior, or his sister's behavior?

[CuriousityKTheCat]

No she’s like young af, she’s innocent, someone who should be able to depend on her loving elders to support her healthy growth.

[666threesixes666]

if she's 18 or older get the police involved. if she's under 18, get the police involved for home made child pornography.

[Asker]

she is 17 years old.

[_dardorsama_]

Nothing... so got even with you and that's it

[VampireEmpress]

is she a lot bigger than you? do it back otherwise.

[Asker]

she is 2 years older to me, but what i don't know what i do back , i am worried if my all friends came to know about this, they would make fun of me.

[VampireEmpress]

so she'll tell people. damn that's harsh. have you told your family?

[Asker]

Yes, i told my mom but she just chided her and asked not to do this again, but it did not effect her and she is just making fun of it.

[VampireEmpress]

then seriously talk with your mom and tell her how terrible it was. will your sister leave soon at least?

[oncpl]

Now try to be friendly with her. If she responses positively, it means she has buried the past.