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One of my bestfriends sucked off my brother should I forgive her?

Three days ago one of my closest friends gave a blowjob to my brother and three people told me but I didn't believe them so I asked her and she said she didn't and I believed her but people kept telling me so I asked my brother and he admitted to it and i'm really upset at my friend because the guy she likes wanted to kiss me and I didn't even touch him coz I knew that would be the wrong thing to do
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  • I'm surprised by the amount of people who dismiss this an if it's not even an issue. I'm not saying you should just cut your friend off without a thought, but you clearly have a legitimate reason to be upset.

    If my best friend was interested in a sister of mine, I would want him to run it by me first before doing anything else, or I would consider it disrespectful. Now, if in the heat of the moment he still did something I could forgive him, but I'd still want to be asked about it first, not lied to about it. If they really do care for each other I might be okay with it, but I wouldn't want just any scumbag touching my sister.

  • I don't think this is any of your concern. You aren't your brother. Your brother's sex life is his own responsibility and has NOTHING to do with you.

    I'd mostly just be pissed at her for being "interested" in so many guys, and thus keeping you from doing what you want. You can't just have dibs on everyone.

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  • Your brother deserves the opportunity to get his dick sucked and it shouldn't bother you or be of any concern to you that it was your friend who pleased him.
    There is a big difference between her doing something with your brother and you doing something with her boyfriend.

  • I feel like her lying to you was wrong, but you seem to be more upset about it being your brother. Are you mad at him too? Because he didn't turn the BJ down sooo...

    And you saying that you didn't kiss her crush is totally different.

  • Wow all the drama at an age when you should be concentrating on your education, sports, hobbies and figuring out who you are. Instead you all want to be on the next teen mom. It's so sad.

    • What? They didn't even have sex... and even if they did, they could simply use birth control + condoms.

    • @R3d_Anonymous Do you understand speaking in a larger sense? I wasn't specifically talking about this instance. I was talking about kids, as a whole, who should be concerned with education, sports, hobbies, etc. Instead so many, plenty of examples on this website alone, only think about relationships and sex. Rarely do sexually active people only do oral. You are right in this 1 case it was only a blow job. However I'd be willing to bet that neither of these individuals is a virgin, meaning risks for babies and diseases for that matter.

    • actually both of them are virgins but anyway i dont care anymore i got over it ages ago

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  • I don't understand why you would tell her to piss of. Of course, it's sensitive but you can't compare your situations. He's your brother not a crush

    • Exactly my brother! That's messed up, also she lied to me about it

    • It's not that messed up sorry. yeah she lied about it and it's bad but it's a forgivable thing.

  • Well... you dont like your brother this way do you? So even if you didn't kiss the guy she liked, its not equal. She sucked of your Brother, now what? High five him, be happy for him. At the end of the day all what happened was that she gave someone a BJ that you dont want anyways or feel attracted to since he's your brother. Basically she just ate sperm of your family, which made your Brother happy. Get over it.

  • Unfortunately, your brother's sex life is none of your business. Forgive your friend. It has nothing to do with you.

  • Forgiving is the best thing.. There is no benefit in being pissed. thing that has been done cannot be undone.. so just forgive her and forget that thing...

    • Yes i know but I don't understand why she would do it to my brother in the first place like there's a lot of guys who want to get a bj so why would she do it to my brother? It's messed upppp

    • Maybe she kind off liked your brother or maybe your brother asked her. There are always 2 sides to a story.. never judge the story by listening it from the one side always listen to the 2 sides then judge the story

  • Your brother wants a sex life as much or more than you! All people do!

  • Wow, how poetically put.

    You truly have the heart of a wordsmith, Katie.

  • I don't understand what the problem is in the person. Are you trying to keep your brother a virgin or something? What's there to forgive in the first place?

  • Awkward... Thisis so jerry Springer... I'll ignore her I were you.

  • Forgive her for what? Were you planning on hooking up with your brother or summat?

    She sucked your brother off, it's not like it's some grand betrayal. How many other girls have been with your brother? What is the significance of a friend refraining from touching your brother?

  • What the hell is the big deal? Your friend and her brother have nothing to do with you.

    In the adult world friends of family get together with family members all the time.

    #GetOverIt

    • I think that it was OP's brother if I'm not mistaken?

    • @dangerDog Yup it was the OP's brother. I don't see the big deal in someone's friend hooking up with someone's family member. It is a common way couples meet in the adult world.

    • So questions, would you be okay if your best friend fucked your sister? Or do you have a sister?

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  • ugh.. she is such a hoe..

  • So what she is your best friend, forgive her.

  • Tell her to stay away from your family.

  • Why not? It's their life, not yours.

  • Of course forgive her. Your brother needs some fun too so why be annoyed at your friend.

  • Why are you even upset? She didn't do anything wrong by you.

    You should be happy that your bro got it on with a cool girl.

  • Your friend just made a bad choice, as did your brother. Just forgive her and then when she isn't looking, suck off her boyfriend Hee Hee

  • why are you pissed?

  • And don't believe any of the forgiveness crap. You don't want your brother to be heart broke do you?

  • Are you jealous because you wanted to give a blow job to your brother instead? Did he cheat on you with your best friend?
    His sex life is not your concern.

    • omg this was a month ago i'm over it bye

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