Girls, Do you think that its fair that my girlfriend makes me eat her butt because I have a small penis?

Question

My penis is 2.25 inches. After having sex the first time my girlfriend told me she was not satisfied with my penis but was willing to compromise if I ate her butt.

 At first she would only make me eat her butt during sex, usually 15-20 minutes. Recently however, she has been making me eat her butt every chance she gets, such as when she comes home and she starts watching TV, she makes me eat her butt while she watches. usually like 45 minutes to an hour. One time she even made me eat her butt while she was eating dinner, she sat on my face while she was eating dinner on the couch.

 Is this normal? I know I can't satisfy her with my penis so I eat her butt whenever she asks and it seems to make her happy/satisfied. 

She does not really return any favors sexually though, she normally only lets me cum after eating her butt. She also said she would could only have missionary sex because other positions like doggy only work with big penises (I am 2.25 inches hard). She also does not give blowjobs. Most of the time when she lets me cum, it is only through handjobs, missionary (rarely), or me masturbating while she is naked. 

I mean I guess its fair that she compromised instead of just dumping me for being small. I just wish we could do "big penis sex positions" like doggy or her on top. 

Is this a fair compromise to you girls?

Rosalie_ · Accepted Answer

Dear Gwash,

First of all, having a small penis has nothing to do with the satisfaction you can give your girlfriend. Every penis has the same utility despite the length and girth. And a penis is not the only way to please your partner: fingers, tongue, even toys are being used (rather vastly) to make the sexual experience more "kinky" and interesting. So, the size of your penis is not of importance. Plus, let me tell you that the G spot is located very close to the vagina's entrance. Any penis can reach it, even a two-centimeter (0.78 inch) penis. Any man, you included, can satisfy any woman, so get that demeaning idea out of your mind, please.

Second, and most important, define "small". Small compared to what exactly? Porn films? If that's what she thinks of as "small", then every penis she will encounter will be small.

Third. Pleasing your girl through "eating her butt" is more than normal. Many women like receiving it, many men like giving it. The question is, do you like it? Or do you just do it because she likes it? If it pleasing you as well, it is fair; if not, well...

Now, as for the "denying sex" part of it... To me it all sounds like sexual manipulation. By that I mean: From what you just described, I see a woman who cares about her satisfaction, but doesn't give you the chance to please yourself. "Making" you eat her out without wanting to "return the favor" is really, really unfair. I get that she might have a problem with taking you in her mouth, many women have a fear of choking onto a penis. If that's not the case, she just wants you to do all the hard work.

" she compromised instead of just dumping me for being small"

No one just dumps you for being small. And if you get the idea that she might actually want to leave you because of your penis size, she's not the right woman for you.

Also, there are no "big penis sex positions". All positions are good for every type of penis. Doggy style even more so, because you're partenr's body and yours are being streched out and make way for the entrance. Her on top is even more helpful.

Think of it, and please don't let anyone make you feel bad about your body; it's yours, it's sacred and no one has the right to insult you and make you feel lesser than you are.

~Rose