What do If my boyfriend doesn't believe he took my virginity?

My boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I wasn't a virgin and every time we argue he says I'm lying and that I wasn't tight and I was experienced. However I did fool around before him but I never had sex. I never even got fingered and he doesn't belive me. It hurts so much because I gave it up to him and it meant so much to me and the fact that he broke up with me for it. What do I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He sounds like a total looser to say that stuff to you. Here was your first and he treats you like crap! Is he Mr. Experienced so much that he knows everything? Tell him he was so small that is why you felt loose!

    Anyway, time to move on, there are way more guys who will care for you. Let him get use to jerkin off for a while, see how he likes that!

  • Ahh, another "technical virgin", I see?

    You do realise that argument completely falls apart, right? You could outright have had 10 dicks in your mouth and rectum and still technically be a virgin because none of it was intercourse.

    • Well I didn't. And I was a virgin. And it's killing me that he dropped me cause of it and believes otherwise after two years...

    • wow what an insensitive comment

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nothing? Clearly he's an asshole who only cared about taking your virginity. He's not worth being with if he's so pervertedly fixated on your virginity and would rather break up with you than get over himself.

  • I think your ex boyfriend is an ASS and you not being a virgin is just an excuse for him no longer wanting to be with you. I suggest you part ways with him, he is not worth your time

  • you need to talk to him and make him understand. if it comes to it go to a doctor and get it checked. they can tell.

    • I tried a million times and he doesn't belive me. What am I suppose to do? Just give up and move on? We've been broken up for 4 months and we still talk.. Argue most of the time but I tried to move on and I can't

    • he has a trust problem and there might not be much you can do to change that except keep reaching out to him without seeming clingy (which is hard, i know)

    • No they can't tell, the hymen thing is bullshit and there's no way to tell if a girl is a virgin or barely experienced, there are no signs. Just like how you can't tell if a guy's dick has been inside a girl before.

  • Show him this video

    https://youtu.be/CLJw05N0-TI



    Although he sounds like an idiot you are better off without him.

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  • Dump him. He has no idea what he's talking about and you can do so much better.

    • Thats absolutely true What a jerk

    • Godspeed!!

  • Walk away. Why would you want to go back to someone who doesn't trust you? I'm sure it hurts, but you deserve better than that.

  • sounds like a jerk. I personally wouldn't even bother with him. it's unfortunate that things went the way they did but the fact is that if the guy you're sleeping with doesn't trust you then there really isn't much to salvage in the relationship

    I mean you could go to an ob-gyn and have them give you a vaginal exam
    you could have a dna test done on your vagina to prove all the various dna down there
    ... but those are both absurd measures to take for a guy who doesn't trust you

  • He is an asshole. Fuck this guy.

  • What u do is forget about him.
    He clearly was a jerk for breaking up with u for something so small.

    He also clearly did not trust u nd doesn't know anything about female anathomy.

  • You didn't lose anything of value if he broke up with you because of that. What an idiot.

  • If he broke up with you just for not being a virgin then he doesn't deserve you.

  • There are so many more important things in life than this and if this is making him freak out you're better off without him.

  • wow. he broke up with you over that. he sounds so stupid.

  • I think you should move on and forget about him, the fact that he broke up with you over something so trivial is astounding.

  • I really think that if he broke off with you because you weren't a virgin you are much better off without him

  • I don't care if a girl is a virgin or not but I don't think I'd believe you either. It's one of the most common things girls lie about. I don't ask, I just assume any girl I date has likely had between 3 and 15 partners before me.