Why does my boyfriend push my head down onto his dick sometimes?

My boyfriend is the most passionate and sweet man I have ever known, and he is all about making love and being gentle. But always, when I am giving him head and while he is romantically fondling me, he'll suddenly forecefully push my head into his dick and try to face fuck me a little bit. It completely doesn't fit the mood, but he always does it at least once. Why?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • do you always only have the "romantic" kind of sex?
    If so, he might like to be a bit rougher and might be testing the waters that way.
    Or he just looses control and being dominant in that way turns him on.
    If it really bothers you and maybe even kills the mood, you need to tell him to control himself. If he can't keep his hands away from your head, just tie him to the bed next time and make a game out of it "if you keep beeing a bad boy I'll have to punish you"
    It's a give an take, both should enjoy it.
    In case he is just being an ass about it (which I doubt really), make it clear that you don't like it and if does it again let him feel your teeth. Don't bite him, but just don't make an effort of keeping him away from them chompers either ;-)

  • I think that's the way he likes his BJs. I wouldn't necessarily say it's because he wants to be in control or because of porn. I think it's just a preference for him, but if you don't like doing it then you need to let him know. I'm sure he'll understand. If you don't say anything to him then you can't expect him to know you don't like it. Don't worry about hurting his feelings or embarrassing you because this is obviously causing you discomfort.

  • He may not know that you don't like it or that you find it uncomfortable. If you don't say anything, he'll probably assume that you do. Young guys develop their sexuality almost exclusively with online porn, so they need their girlfriends to teach them about real world sex with gentle honesty.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Because he's likely repressing all that cave man that's in every man and when you go down on him, he can't control it anymore. Does he ever just go cave man on you and really just fuck you?

    • P. S. Conversely, there's a slut in every girl. Does yours ever cum out to play (sic)?

  • Apparently, the sight of you sucking on his probe makes him lose control.

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  • Next time he does that just bite him.. he will never force his dick inside your mouth that way. If he asks why did you do than just aks him the same question back.

    Gagging is not a nice feeling.. when I suck a dick I need to be in total control.

  • Because it feels good and he likes being in control. You have to tell him to stop it, otherwise he'll just do it again. If he's as sweet as you say he is, he'll be mortified that he caused you discomfort and he'll stop doing it.

  • He's into that. If you don't like it tell him

  • well tell him its no oak if u dont like it and if he persists maybe handcuffs need to come into play

  • He's probably trying to massage your tonsils with his dick. What a considerate guy!

  • It's a control thing

  • he wants you get downn!!! get to da chopper

    • Totally read that in Arnie's voice LMAO!

  • it is a dominance thing

  • my wife forces my head in deeper when i am eating her out nothing wrong with it

  • Because he's an asshole? Tell him that's insulting. I personally love it when a girl takes her time and teases and pretends she doesn't want to, and then stares into my eyes when she takes it. Gulp I gotta go!

  • guys love being in control lol my boyfriend does it to me too

    personally I kinda like being dominated during sex lol

  • A bad habit. Tell him you do not like it.
    Like mentioned by the ladies, it is a power move, and used a lot in porn.

  • Well, why not

  • Bite his penis then lol. He wants you to go way deeper. I'm not really down for that but if I agree to rough sex with a SO then it would be okay. But for us to be having a romantic, love making session... It's disrespectful and rude. I would tell him about it and if he keeps doing it I'd bite him.

  • he want a deep throat
    or too much porn

  • Ask him. we dont live in his head.