It either means you are smoking hot or the only option for sex that he has.
A true player with game who has a stable of beauties at his disposal isn't going to be breathing down your neck every day for sex as he's got other females to take care of that for him, plus a player wants you to miss him so that when you do seem him again you're more than ready to let your body be plundered and ravished by him all over again.
Anyway though all that aside you shouldn't be a typical dumb female and try and change things with him if you are enjoying the sex just as much as he is.
Go with it and live it up for as long as it remains enjoyable.
The moment you cut it off and try to friendzone him he will be gone anyway so don't bother trying to change things now as a pattern has already been established.
You two are having sex with eachother, you don't go from that to no sex and expect a guy to tolerate that as a new arrangement.
The only way a guy could possibly tolerate that as a new arrangement is if he got some girl he perceived as better to be his girlfriend and for whatever reason she allowed him to still hang around with you but only as friends which is highly unlikely.1 0 0 0This makes a lot of sense I'll go with the flow as I've been doing. So how do I make him miss me? And want me even more? Any advice? And also, I jusr wanted to know based on my description, so u think he likes me as more than a fuck buddy?
I read your post over again so I can get the fullest picture of your situation as possible and help you the best that I possibly can. Anyway after that long opening summation lol here's my answer to you. I think this guy genuinely wants you to be his girlfriend which should make you happy as you seem to genuinely want him to be your boyfriend. It sounds to me like the both of you are just kind of unrefined on uh romance which explains his texting you important romantic things when yeah really he should be saying stuff like that in person but give him a break he likely doesn't know proper tact being a young dumb guy as we all are at some point in our lives lol. Anyway playing games of trying to make him miss you or want you more probably aren't a good idea as games tend to ruin relationships over time. You both seem to want eachother enough as it is already so should stop BSing around about it and make it official already. Ask him to be your boyfriend and if he refuses move on.
Thanks so much for your unlimited response
He sounds like a very anxious individual. I would say before he can think of actually being wirh you he needs to figure out what he wants. As far as being domineering goes, you may want to talk to him about that, discuss why he does it and then move forward from there.
1 0 0 0So you're saying he sounds confused? Does he seem interested in me though sex aside?
Hard to say. I'd ask him straightforward like. Go out, have lunch, go for a walk and then ask him. If he can't open up enough to discuss this then he is not ready for a relationship reguardless of how he feels about you.
He's told me that he likes me and he asked me to be his girl a few times but through text.. And he's asked if I like him or just see him as a sex object yet he's the one who makes it seem like I'm the sex object... Smh! I don't get him :(
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0 5You're not going to change his sex drive and if you can live happily fucking your way through life, then he's not relationship material. If eh got better skilled in helping you get yours, would that make a difference?
1 0 0 0This guy is using you as his convenient piece of ass. You are and will always be just a fuck buddy to him. Why is it so hard for you to see this? Tell him to buy a blow-up doll if he wants a sex toy. Geez...
0 0 0 0Why, just because u give in because I'm horny too? So I guess he makes for a convenient piece of ass too? And he could get someone else, anyone else...
Lol!!
Why bother looking for someone else to screw? You are convenient and available.
Hi. You asked some questions about this guy under a different user name recently, right?
A guy wants to know that what he does with you/to you/for you gets you off. If he is only doing what you tell him to do, it doesn't satisfy his need to know that he can please you sexually. What this means is that he is anxious to prove that he satisfies you sexually and that means he has an interest in you deeper than just being his fuck buddy.1 0 0 0Means you're hot.
0 0 0 0I love to have sex with my girl & if I knew she could, I would do it with her every day!!! But I know she needs a break in between. Haha.
As far as your boy toy, every guy is different.0 0 0 0So do u think im just a convenient piece of ass to him? Just like alpha male user stated? Lol
Unfortunately yes :-(
If u were mine, I would make sure u wouldn't feel or be just a piece of ass.
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