How Many Successful Tinder Dates Have You Been On?

[Anonymous]

I'm a busy guy, and I don't have a lot of time to meet women. For example, I typically work from 6am-6pm, go to the gym, eat dinner and repeat. On weekends, I am usually hanging with friends, but they all have girlfreinds, so I do things with all of them and can't really meet women in person. I got Tinder last fall, and I because of my bio and pictures, I can easily rack up 200+ matches in 2 weeks,. When I talk to women, I get to know a little about them on Tinder, talk to them on the phone, Facetime and then meet them in person for a date. For the past year (including last fall), I've probably gone out on 30 or so Tinder dates. All of those Here are my stats: -Out of 30, I have only gotten 2 second dates -Out of 30, I have kissed or even made out with 15 or so of them -Out of 30, I have only had light foreplay/sex with one of them Basically, all of my dates have been failures. Dates starts out good, we are talking about relevant topics, I pay for the food/drinks, girl expresses interest to see me again, I text or call her after the date and nothing. Do people who use Tinder have similar experiences? Why is it so hard to date on Tinder?

[melanoma]

No I disagree with other girls. Tinder can be a source of your future 'potential' mate. However, your stats tell me the reasons why you're not being successful. You have made out with 1/2 of them? No way.

You need to be intentional with them. As much as you want to go on many dates to have your options open, if you want a genuine relationship as your future significant other, you can't just have fun. Feel the chemistry, but look at their character, talk to them, be real, and don't spread yourself thin. It will work. Girls are not as complicated as you guys think they are. If you're genuine and intentional with them, they will open up, and will want to be with you because we all want to be cared for, and adored.

Hope it helped, and good luck :)

[Asker]

What do you mean by intentional

[aventaes]

I think she means see her as a person, try to get to know her. What are her fears? What is she excited about. And why? For instance if she loves to travel... what does she love about it? relaxing, cultures, meeting people? I've been in love 2ce and i could listen to them talk for hours back then. Everyone of their thoughts were like water in the desert. Precious.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

It's because tinder is mostly for hookups not dating or getting into a relationship. I've never gone on a tinder date because the guys tend to get creepy before we get that far (asking for nude pics or for me to go to their place when we've been talking for like 5 mins). Not my thing. If you want to try a dating app try coffee meets bagel it's a little better.

[Anonymous]

None. Tinder is a waste of time if you're actually looking for something meaningful

[Anonymous]

Tinder is not a relationship app. It's a hookup app. You swipe based on nothing other than what they look like. People that use it for actual relationships are truly shallow. With casual sex it's fine because it's casual sex so looks are the only thing that matters in it.

[Anonymous]

Oh lol I'm actually dating a guy from tinder