Boyfriend won't let me lick his ass. How to convince him?

[beckycostolano]

So we've been having sex for 3 weeks. when I went down on him for the first time I went to lick his ass but he got all freaked out and called off the sex for the day after he lost his erection. Safe to say I was pretty frustrated. I tried it agian and he did the same thing. He told me he doesn't like it when I do that and asked me to stop. But I KNOW he would enjoy it if he just let me. How can I convince him to let me lick his ass?

[Dєѕιвσу]

I don't want to criticise you like others. But you notice how he looses excitement after you try to lick it. That means he is not comfortable and find this super weird to turn him off.
Also i understand that you want to have this fantasy to be real but it's very very rare that a girl actually wanna play with Man's booty especially by licking his asshole.
Also.. however clean the asshole is something that is very unhygienic because it does have various bacteria around it all time and this is most unclean part of body.
Hence thinking that way your boyfriend wouldn't want be able to play mouth to mouth or kiss you because he will feel unhygienic to do so. So he looses excitement instantly.

[beckycostolano]

'sigh'... fine, I'll drop it then. thanks for not being judgmental like the rest.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Hey don't feel bad!! Fantasies are fantasies and if he had no problem than world should not have any problem :-)

[Jamesk1888]

He would like it if he just chilled out.

[AustinMan]

I'm guessing he thinks engaging in, much less enjoying anal play makes him gay. You need to gently explain to him that he's your man and he all man and real men get reamed and love it.

[xXiTacoXx]

You don't do anything because if you force him to do something without him really wanting to it's rape... How would you feel if you were raped even if it's by your S. O?

[beckycostolano]

Its not rape! I asked how to convince him to let me! not how to force myself on him.

[xXiTacoXx]

No, you're asking about another way to pressuring him into doing something he doesn't want to do. Rape is rape, don't try to sugar coat it by using coercion. He obviously doesn't want to do it so just give up, and don't force it on him during sex when you have it with him, because that really would be rape.

[Minxxie]

You can't force someone into letting you do something they are uncomfortable with, stop thinking like a fucking rapist you are sick!

[beckycostolano]

its not like I'm forcing him. I just want him to let me try it on him a few times so he can really know how good it feels. I'm not some rapist.

[Minxxie]

no what you are doing is called coercion and it's wrong, he doesn't deserve that be a better person.

[ClariceOwen23]

There's nothing you can do about it. If he doesn't wanna do it, just let it go.

[HookingSwan]

Let it go 🎼🎶🎶 Let it go 🎼🎶🎶 The lack of anal play never bothered him anyway...

[ClariceOwen23]

@HookingSwan I love you!! You crack me up all the time 😂

[HookingSwan]

Lol I do? Nice :)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

respect his wishes and stop bothering him about it

[crystalt70]

Sounds like you went too far up shit's creek.

[gray_sailor]

Good thing she isn't trying to use a paddle. Then again, he might be into that.

[crystalt70]

Well, it seems like she is looking for that proverbial paddle. She went too far up the creek without the paddle and is now in search of it in order to get to her destination. @gray_sailor

[BloncGryphous]

First, possible sexual trauma may exist, causing a mental block. Don't push it! No means no!
Second, there may be some homo-phobic issues causing a mental block. Don't push it! No means no!
Things like this should be discussed in advance. If he does not want it, don't push it! No means no!

On a personal note, I wish my wife would do that for me more often.

[nobuttonstopush]

Awe hell nah! (said in Ice Cube voice)

[Goldie757]

You do realise coercion is wrong. If the idea of it makes him lose an erection I think it is safe to say he does not like it.

[justbanANNAz]

well i think u need to just respect what he wants and back off. if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. i dont think he wants to be forced into it.

[JuicyBrain]

I did it and had it done. It was fun for me. I understand why you want to do it. Obviously though, he doesn't. You can talk about it with him but if he says no, you'll have to respect his decision in which case, your options are to either stop thinking about it or leave him for someone more open to exploration.

[Xelebrum]

NO means fucking NO.

GET THAT THROUGH YOUR HEAD.

[Ulyss]

No means NO!! *cries* 😰 NO MEANS NOO!!

[Ihav2fart]

LMAOOO I'm Fart and I approve this message.

[tenchu11]

... Pull a Bill Cosby on him

[beckycostolano]

whats that?

[ImaSloth]

Omg.. You do exist.. If a girl did that to me I would be out of it, but honestly I think some guys think it's gay to enjoy anal Play, it's like some taboo thing.. It's a shame because the orgasms can be absolutely earth shattering. You shouldn't push the issue though, he may just not be comfortable with that.

[Phoenix98]

No means no, drop it.

[steveisbored]

Assplay is not something everyone is into. Don't force it

[nakedalligator]

Doubt you can change his mind, we like what we like.

But damn it's a shame, I would have been ecstatic.

[SteamBuns]

Ummm uhhhhh No licking of the ass... Sorry It' just not right

[jakeofalltrades]

if he don't want you to do that don't do it

[jschlik017]

He might equate that to being gay.

[suckm4696969]

while you are 69 ing him (you on top) and your sucking him really hard slip your finger in his arse and massage his prostate once you make him cum like this he will let you lick it. he is very lucky id love to have someone that kinky

[Anonymous]

One word. Ew

[Anonymous]

I'm dying to have a girl do this to me you are one in a million