Does this make me like a prostitute?

My boyfriend and I just got back from vacation. We've been together for 6 months and I know he doesn't like to travel and was doing it to do me a favor, so I picked cheap vacation spots originally (croatia, morrocco and Turkey) Each just a few hours away. I'm in college so it had to be cheap anyways. But then he went to insist on really expensive hotels and tours and stuff. And i wasn't quite comfortable with him paying for that at first but he said if we are going on vacation he wants it to be in a way he enjoys and it kinda made sense to me. I was just talking about that part to a friend and why he insisted on paying so much and she said "Did you lose your virginity to him there" and I did so she said "well consider yourself a very expensive prostitute then" and the she said "just kidding" but she wasn't kidding obviously. And what she said made sense actually. right? Is that what he had in mind? I asked a few guys I know as well, who know him as well and they all said "ya I could see that... just kidding" but obviously they weren't kidding either
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No cmon what a friend! You love your boyfriend and he loves you, right? He just wanted a fun vacation with his love, at least, that's how I'm reading this. And you got a very good treatment because he only wants the best for you. If you had forced him to pay a lot and tried to make him to it with sex, than you would be considered a bad girlfriend, not even a prostitute. Besides that, boys always want to pay. My boyfriend wanted to pay everything for me and that felt awkward and bad so now we even have these agreements like "you pay drinks, I pay food" or "you pay tickets, I buy snacks".

  • No, he's your boyfriend if he wants to spend the extra cash on you to make his time better as well as yours let him! However if you slept with him solely because he did that and it went against your morals... STILL wouldn't make you a prostitute! xx

  • Sounds like your friend is a jealous asshole or makes terrible jokes. Any guy who is worth anything will always want the best for his partner, it sounds like he wanted you to enjoy and be comfortable

  • Not at all, what your friend said is ridiculous. By your friend's definition, like 99% of people who had their partner pay for a date are prostitutes.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Most women have criteria for sex, like a certain number of dates, buy me dinner, whatever it may be it's often associated with a number, which gives you a value, like a prostitute. However in your case, you two had sex because of how his actions made you feel, not because he spent a certain amount of money on the hotels. Even if he had spent less money, I hope you would've made love regardless. If that's the case, then your self worth is respectable but if you had sex just because he was spending money on you it makes you worth money rather than worth a good partner.

    • I would have had sex with him anyways, though I'll admit it helpful to be in a big suite with a view onto the sea

    • help in what way? as in you had sex sooner or it made the sex more romantic?

    • well both kinda. It's def an easier decision and easier to get in the mood when you can do it on a king size bed, overlooking the sun setting over the ocean, not having to worry about breakfast, work or cleaning the next morning. It's just a few things you know. Like we had private jacuzzi in our room in turkey and we probably wouldn't have done it that night otherwise.

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  • Hell no!!! You were with a man you care about who cares about you. Part of his wanting nice places to stay is that he wanted your new status to be special and not in a cheap hotel room.

    As for your bitch, alleged "friend," she's full of it. We all have to get laid eventually and I'm guessing she's feeling very superior because her damn V card is intact, so to speak. It would be most just if her boyfriend threw her over his knee and spanked her bare bottom until she was sore for a week.

    • she isn't a virgin tho And the whole point of going to cheap countries was that nice hotels are cheap as well but he wanted great fancy hotels

    • I still feel it was a s much about you as him. You should be proud to be a woman who's swapped her V card for what is hopefully a most satisfactory cock. ;)

    • that's a very odd thing to say

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  • No... you aren't a prostitute. What jerks to say something like that.

  • No.. I dont believe that is what he had in mind and that seems like a shitty friend. That did not make you a prostitute.

  • there was no business transaction that clearly stated you were trading sex for an expensive vacation. she can fuck herself :P

    • but was it implied?

    • he's your boyfriend, none of this shit matters lol. 😂

  • They were kidding.

  • no he was probably trying to make it special

  • The answer to your question lies in if you would have slept with him if you split the bill or if it wasn't on vacation.

    • well I couldn't have carried my half of the bill but he knew that And well I was kinda planning to have sex on vacation for the first time, I guess I would have anyways though eventually

    • There ya go. Most women use sex as a commodity in one form or another so it is commonly a bit of a grey area.

  • Would you have sex with any man that offered expensive stuff in return? I'm gonna assume the answer is no, which means that no, you aren't anything like a hooker

  • they werent kidding.

    • ya i know