How should I ask a guy friend for sex?

My friend hitted on me when I had a boyfriend. Now I'm single and we're still friends. He's always told me he still likes me that way and I like him too but I never had the chance to tell him. (We have this strong chemical attraction). How should I clear things up? I'm really shy and I don't know what I should do or say. Do you have any advice?
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  • He has resigned himself to the "Friendzone", and has resolved to think nothing more of you.

    Therefore, you are going to have to be really obvious, indeed, *you will need to make a pass at him* to get him out of that frame of mind.

    • That's what I think. He's just resigned himself to it. What do you think I should do to be really obvious?

    • Unbutton his shirt. Yes, you must be *that* obvious. As a rule, once I (and most other men) realize we are in the Friendzone, one of three things happens: 1. Moving on, because if there is no sexual interest on her part why bother, 2. Trying to hang out in the Friendzone hoping her mind will change (this is the pathetic response and I advise men against it) or, 3. If she is an interesting enough person to have as a friend, simply turn off any and all sexual interest in her and be platonic. I suspect this guy is #3, yes?

    • I think so. Because we hang out together, we talk about everything, we are quite good friends. I don't think he fits in #2. So, do you think that unbottoning his shirt would work? I just hope he won't say something like "what are you doing? why?" because I'd probably laugh and blush lol

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  • Tell him that since you've been single, you've been feeling lonely and thinking about how he was interested in you when you weren't available. If he is still interested, he will take it from there.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Tell him you're available and would like to go out sometime. Just let it go from there.

    • Thanks for MHO

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  • you merely need to find a way to get him alone and nature will probably run its course. invite him over for netflix or something..

  • walk up to him and say "hey, i wanna fuck, you in?"
    10/10 guys will say yes.

    • That would be too awkward and I'm a shy girl, I'm never that straight.

    • if you're not that straight, ask another girl to join you two. He'll definetly say yes then :P trust me on this, if he's straight, he'll say yes ;)

    • Maybe he won't if he respects her and there's that chemistry going on. Could also scare him

  • Tell him you want him and if he is interested and weak willed he will come after you like a cannary.

  • Never ask for sex. Ask him to hang out, then seduce him.

    • That's the problem. We already hang out, even when I had a boyfriend. But just as friends! How can I make him read between the lines? I know he likes me, but he knows that I told him I just wanted to be his friend, so I don't think I'll be able to seduce him, I mean, even if I did, he wouldn't do anything about it because I already turned him down in the past

    • Send him a sexy Valentine's card

  • "I really want to have sex with you."

  • Have him come over and you "Accidentally " get caught coming out of the shower naked