Girls, How to get more blowjobs?

I know it sounds selfish but trust me i am not. Bried overview: Dating girl for about 6 months. She constantly says thinks like "I REALLY like you" (which i think is her trying to hint @ "love"). We get along really well - in fact dont think we've ever had an argument and if we have it has been so minor and laughed at - we are doing pretty well. We are passionate and always excited to see eachother. My relationship checklist is as follows: 1) Loyal 2) Make her laugh 3) Make her orgasm all the time (i always like to keep ratio of 2 to her 1 to me min 4) Text her see how she is doing / show her i genuinely care 5) Randomly get her a gift every now and again - only a little something like bath stuff or flowers (I try to be as random as possible) 6) Take her out to comedy gigs, rock climbing - I try and keep things fun and not stagnate... 7) She knows that I am a man - I have my life plan. I am getting shit done - i will move mountains to achieve my career goals. Its that simple. She hopefully is there with me on my journey - so that it becomes "our journey" - but ultimately it is the most important thing to me. We have sex a lot. Great sex. I wouldn't say im the best in the world or anywhere near it - but a damnsight better than your average guy. I have taken her to sex shops, bought toys and she is fully comfortable "letting go" with me in the bedroom - she knows private stuff remains exactly that. All of the above is not to brag or suggest at how great things are. Its to provide background to my following problem: I RECEIVE LESS BLOWJOBS THESE DAYS - I Love Blowjobs. I dont know why she has begun to give me less and less - and i dont think asking for more blowjobs is the way to do things... So - how do i get her to give me more blowjobs? shouldn't she WANT TO? Or has she become comfortable in our relationship she doesn't feel as if he has to "try" as much or something? Thanks girls x
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  • Don't hope for one if

    1) it's been a stressful day at work. Bobbing her head up and down for long cam actually lead to a headache and also, most of us at that time aren't in a position to please others.

    2) if you don't clean up regularly down there. You need to wash up after your pee as well. Pee stink is repulsive as hell!

    3) if she is physically tired

    4) if you're the kind of person who refuses to go down on her.

    5) if she doesn't have a strong emotional connection with you. I would only go down on a guy that I am very serious with. I want ALL of him.

    These are my biggest reasons.
    However, if she genuinely doesn't want to go down on you and you keep going down on her... There is nothing you can do about it. It is selfish.

  • I love giving bjs, but if I'm tired, I'm not going to initiate, because the worst thing to do is just tease the guy. I go in full force till he cums or nothing at all. So on this note, maybe you've been tiring her out beforehand? Do you normally cum in her mouth? I really don't like the taste of my bf's cum ugh but I suck it up (no pun intended) for him.

    • I get what you mean. She did say my cum isn't very nice haha - but then again - no cum tastes AMAZING. It's nice that you do that for your boyfriend. Its not like my girlfriend swallows - when she first had issues I was very forth coming about the fact that i honestly couldnt care whether it ends up in a tissue. toilet or her stomach... I do usually tire her out if being honest - but thats because of my 2-1 rule ;) I find she goes into an orgasm coma - similar to a mans! I always thought girls could keep going but my girlfriend gets sleepy and cuddly - I have to wait until sensitivity dies down until i try and coax her again haha

    • Yep! I get cuddly too, its a girl thing haha

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  • she might just be saying what she thinks u want to hear. but you could always just ask her. or hint at it in kinda flirty dity way that you want some head. or maybe jsut guide her head down to ur dick when you guys are getting intimate... or maybe you could just tell her you wish you would get more head.

    • I suppose what you are saying is - she most prob thinks she is giving enough head already and that unless I let her know I want more - she won't give more?

    • yea pretty much.

  • Some girls like giving blow jobs and do it a lot. Some never give them at all. It doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong, it just varies how often people want to do that.

  • I think maybe that could be , getting too comfortable and not thinking she has to anymore. But every girl is different. not everybody loves to do it. a lot of women really don't like it and feel like its a chore.

  • I love blowjobs so I may not be the best person to answer this one I use to constantly give my boyfriend blowjobs because watching him be turned on like that actually got me off too.

    My suggestion would be to switch it up try teasing and eating her out more and maybe she will return the favor you could also suggest trying out 69