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My boyfriend said 'Why does your Vagina look Funny?'.. He kinda closed my legs and started laughing... He's killed me?

Firstly I think he's been watching too much porn. I asked him why it looks funny he said isn't it supposed to be just a line and very little skin. He referred to these types as pretty. Even though he never found my pussy the best what hurt me more was he was trying to look away to stifle his laughter. I know it's not because he's inexperienced because he's had a girlfriend before plus hook ups soo... My one doesn't have much labia it's a good standard and nobody has made a complaint before. I started crying so he tried comforting me and while he did so he tried pretending he still thought it looked nice. I've never seen his penis and tbh even if I tried getting revenge he wouldn't care plus he'd know im upset still so it's futile. M problem is I dont think he meant to verbalize it I think it was a Freudian slip. I can't bare to let him see me naked again. Overall he's such a nice person and it was my idea to initiate oral. Why dont some guys monitor what they say? shouldn't the first thing he said be 'Wow your pussy is pretty'... Even nothing would've been better.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • How can you have sex without having seen his penis? Or how could he have not seen your vagina before? Or was this supposed to be the first time you had sex? I don't get it.
    But yes, he made a really inappropriate comment and I have no idea how he could possibly fix this. Pretty sure he realized his mistake though and is genuinely sorry about it. It's probably not the end of the world, I'd say give it some time and let him apologize over and over again.
    Don't get all insecure about his comment though, it's just different from what he expected and I'm sure he didn't mean it like that. Honestly, whatever your vagina may look like, it has zero influence on your sex life or relationship.

  • Wow... that's really low. Like he should be thankful that a special girl in his life has allowed him sight of such an intimate area for her. Some people just don't have a filter and don't realize how much pain they can cause with words. There's just nothing that can be said about him, like vaginas and boobs are what gives a girl her femininity and to call them 'funny' looking? He should be ashamed.

Most Helpful Girls

  • What an asshole. I guess he doesn't know any better or he only knows the ones from porn. He's just ignorant, and probably think a vagina is supposed to look like the ones from porn and that's it. Don't listen to him. If you want revenge just go and laugh at his dick and ask him if it's supposed to be longer.

  • He's an asshole! I'm sure your vag is fine. This tool isn't worthy of seeing between your legs. I'm sure he has a pathetic little dick too. Save yourself for someone with a little class.

  • Then dump him if he hurt you like that why stay with him? sorry but when a guy makes fun of my appearance I lose respect and attraction.

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  • No virgina is the same. They are unique. A bit like the women that posses them. So this guy to express his opinion in this way is rare because most heterosexual males find the unique woman to have a fabulous unique vagina. So try not to take his words to heart.

  • Seriously ditch that son of a bitch. What a loser!. He is obviously self obsessed and cares little about your feelings. As others have said, you allowed him into your intimate area and all he did was take the pies, he does not care about you and definitely doesn't love you. Please get rid so he may at least learn some humility an never make the same mistake again. Dicks like him give the rest of us a bad name. Please whatever you do, do NOT let this make you self conscious or act self conscious around a new partner. Do not hold new partners to his low standards. Love your body, it looks great and enjoy being with people who feel the same way.

  • What an asshole. I think you should now laugh at his penis.

  • Between this guy and the "I wish your boobs were bigger and fuller" guy, there's a lot of putzes out there right now who shouldn't have girlfriends.

  • Woah what an asshat. Make fun of his dick if you don't want to dump him.

  • Your boyfriend is a putz. You should educate him on the reality of how vaginas are so varied in appearance.

    show him this site

    https://largelabiaproject.org/

    And explain to him how embarrassed and self conscious it made you when he said that to you.

    Then, depending on how he reacts, determine whether you want to be with someone who has his kinds of beliefs.

    It's important not to do it in the moment when he's confused by your reaction, you want him to be able to sit down and think about what he said.

  • What an asshole

  • He doesn't sound snice to me. I wouldn't say that ever MY ex had no joke the uggliest pussy I have EVER seen. I still liked her its kinda like when you meet a guy whos awesome, great looking but has a tiny dick shit happens and you still date him. same for me I never said anything and she will never find out

  • Girls are so complex. One minute they are asking for total honesty, but then when they get total honesty they would rather have a lie.

  • And so the cycle of vengeance begins.

  • Don't get me wrong a dick joke is really hurtful that kills a guys self esteam like no other if its bad enof he won't even b able to get hard but that was just a shitty thing he said but u r reading into it way to much ur just different then what he has seen its normal but ik it's not funny looking

  • That's why people shouldn't watch porn no one believes me

  • Welp, it's time to send him to the doghouse until he's learned his lesson.
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  • If you plan on having sex with him that's a bad idea

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