My girlfriend wont give me a blowjob, so should I eat her out?

[christopheredwards18]

She doesn't give head, so I stopped eating her out because it works both ways. It's only fair isn't it?

[Goforit1010]

Wow... at 19 you know so much. Does it matter if she gives you head or not? Maybe she's uncomfortable doing that. There have been a zillion Q's on this site alone from girls who have no idea how to do that. They're unsure. They don't know what to do. They're afraid to hurt a guy and so on.

Damn... one of these days you're going to figure out that it's about GIVING, not GETTING! So what if you eat her out and she doesn't do that for you. Did you do your best to make her feel wanted? Loved? Thought about? Put her first above yourself? THAT is the emotional side of sex that girls so desperately desire from their guys. You decide.

[R3d_Anonymous]

Yep that's how it works. You're standing up for yourself and not letting her walk all over you. That's good. Why should you eat her out if she won't give you a blowjob (unless she's involuntarily choosing not to), unless you actually really like cunnilingus?

[AmandaLynn1930]

um, no not really. thats not really really how it works. but if you feel she's taking advantage or something, then don't do it. its really up to you. if you think it will hurt ur relationship, maybe work something out so ur both happy. or just have an oralless relationship if you think thats "fair"

[Sara413]

How about instead of playing a game of nickle-and-dime, you talk to your girlfriend about why she does not want to do it?

[fauchelevent]

Meh, I'd still give my boyfriend head even if he didn't want to give it me. People like different things.

[Roostah]

So your boyfriend is a zombie?

[fauchelevent]

What? :P

[juliana101]

@fauchelevent How big u like?

[madhatters4]

relationships aren't quid pro quo (favor for a favor)
relationships are about being selfless. don't do something just because they won't or because it's some sort of revenge.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

this^^

[Dargil]

Your relationship is already petty and uneven. I would end it without harming her emotionally by blaming her. Just say you don't feel you and she are not compatible and don't get cornered into explaining.

[bundy]

Stop giving it to her then. You need to work it out with her

[OrdinaryGentleman]

lol fuck no. A relationship is about respecting an-others self and loving them enough to compromise... a loss for a loss is childish and the moment you start doing that you are immediately doubting yourself.

[jb12358]

That's probably not a good way of dealing with it mate. I've been in relationships before where sex wasn't happening enough. You need to talk to them in order to fix it, give it time and if you can't then you need to think about your compatibility sexually

[SkaterDude]

tie a Popsicle to your penis and see if that gets her open up her mouth

[jakeofalltrades]

I have thought about trying that, let me know how it works out for you

[mexborough]

maybe. depends why she doesn't like it. maybe just have to bite the bullet.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's fair.

[Anonymous]

If your relationship is at the point where you are intentionally sexually denying each other because the other is refusing to do sex acts you like but they're not interested in, it's time to dump her and move on.

[Anonymous]

It's not about fair In a relationship. It's about putting the other person first

[Anonymous]

Women always bitch about 'equality'. If she won't do it, neither should you.

[Anonymous]

She will if you buy her enough things, give her more money to spend, show that you're willing to die for her protection and do her work like a little slave.

Sex is a reward.