Is it okay to send my boyfriend random pictures?

Im a very sexual person and my boyfriend is not. I love dirty talk, sexting, naughty pictures. While my boyfriend has sent me pictures (only after i specifically asked for them) he doesn't like to sext whatsoever. I dont think he's ever asked me to send him a picture. Anyways, im feeling insanely frisky today. While i was getting ready for work, i took a whole bunch of pictures (most of them in my bra and topless) . I really want to send him a picture out of the blue today, but im not sure if itd be appreciated. I guess this question is more for the guys who may be less sexual than their spouse. Do you think i should or not a good idea? And trust is completely not an issue!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You both are two birds of a feather who stick together, and although 'Sexting' along with Other Naughty and Nice things may not be on his list of love, go ahead and make an exciting concerted effort in Helping him along.
    He may need a bit of a nudge to stop being a stuffed shirt. Some guys Ned this and what better way than to to take baby steps with First... Bra and topless.
    In time, I think, and maybe even now, he will Begin his own Beguine in seeing you want to keep this romance in going south.
    Good luck. xx

    • Thanks, sweetie, for the upvote.. You have my Vote. xxoo

  • its ok to send him pictures. you might spike his sex drive. or at least turn him on randomly and then when he comes home you can get it in :) i think its a win win. even if it doesn't, he'll see that ur feeling frisky and maybe it'll help him want to b more sexual.

  • I don't think its a good idea for a women to send pics anywhere to anyone. Sooner or later they end up where you don't want them too... or he gets drunk and shows his buddies, or you break up and he posts them online out of anger..

    But to each his own...

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you asked if he likes/minds the pics being sent? Maybe when he is in work mode he died t want the distraction ( as lovely as I'm sure you are ) my girlfriend sends me pics when I am away on business but usually at night when she's pretty sure I'll be in the hotel and I like and appreciate that.
    I think maybe you should post your pictures here and I'll let you know if it's a good idea to forward to your hubby:)

  • I'm not less sexual than my partner but I would like to answer. I'm sure he appreciated it but even if he didn't it served the purpose for you. Maybe you need another outlet someone else to just sex with. That also could be erotic sexting with a stranger

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  • Ofcourse! If only you think he will respond in a positive way, I once had a boyfriend that I would send pictures to, and he responded as if it didn't make any difference in his day, it kind of put me in a bad mood lol

  • it's absolutely fine, he should be very grateful

  • go for it.

  • Send them with the message someone's getting lucky tonight

  • Keep feeding them to him. It's the way to go!