Guys, Non black men! Why are black women seen only as sex object to you?

[sweetkiss99]

This question is only for men who aren't black. I'm a black female on this dating site. Im only looking for friends. Its like every man that isn't black is just looking for sex with me. They are sending me penis pics, telling me, I'm sexy and how they can please me. They don't even want my name or basic convo. This may be flattering at times. But repetitive and makes it hard to date. Sex is easy to get there is nothing special. We all know it can go two ways : Just be a one night stand or be use as a sex buddy. This is not only online its in bars to diff raced men jus see sex with blacks. its rare that they will actually date them. Do es this go back to black women being the least desirable. I'm expecting honesty. Thanks

[0112358]

I know guys who are interested in dating or sex with black women as well as other races, and I have known some guys who were not interested.

I've never known any to say they'd sleep with but not date black women.

It may be a more common attitude in areas where interracial dating is a bigger issue than where I live, where guys might like black women but aren't willing to deal with social issues around having a relationship? I don't know.

Generally speaking many guys on dating site are just looking for sex, and very few guys are looking for just friendship on a dating site. Probably none, actually. Women do this, probably because they get bombarded with messages on a dating site, while men get -ignored- on dating sites so it is sort of the worst place possible for a male to make friends.

[Jonny_]

That's not limited to race at all, especially on dating sites... guys online with women online generally equates to the guy trying to get laid same thing in real life (age depending in a lot of cases) many guys only want to get laid and some never grow out of that stage. Race can be an issue for guys in terms of those who have fetishes, or sexual desires based on race alone. They become more focussed on just completing their fantasy and don't even think about the person. Personally? I'll date whoever if i'm attracted to them, sex doesn't really come into my mind for potential partners it's not a major concern of when i'll be having sex or if we're 'sexually compatible' yadda yadda. I think that finding someone I like and who likes me is hard enough without me making it tough.

[sweetkiss99]

Thanks

[cavmanier]

That's not something lots of men will only do with black women. A lot (maybe most) guys just want sex, regardless of what race the girl is.

[TheFlashover]

Generalization. I've been a "non-black" man for 34 years and never used a black woman purely for sex. I enjoy all races and never use anyone. You're on the wrong dating site.

[Ulyss]

I would date a black woman if she has the same interests as me which is quite rare "but not impossible" to find a black woman liking and just a question do you get mad if your boyfriend didn't answer your text in under 5 mins and assume the worst...

[sweetkiss99]

Stop feeding into stereotypes

[Ulyss]

This happens to my friend... lol

[TripleAce]

Well any girl we see as NOT a potential girlfriend or wife, she goes In the sex pile

Most likely it's because your not their type to date biutsince your a female a male will still want to intincively have sex with you

[sweetkiss99]

That makes sense in a way.. Are you saying men have no type to have sex with.. If so. Id say most don't but I know a few that actually have a certain criteria for sexual partners.

[TripleAce]

Yes for sure men have criterias but sometimes we rather show our sexual dirty side with someone that we don't feel will be for real and be for real and sweet with ones we want as gf's The criterias for most guys is basically being a female... it's not very high. Chubby fat girls gets offers for sex all the time

[usernameisnttaken]

I don't view any woman as a sex object regardless of her race. I'm sorry you had to deal with that but not all guys think like that.

[jjmarvin]

I don't know, i think you just met a large number of one's that happen to be bad, doesn't mean we all are.

Like if 3 non white girls treated me wrong in relationships i wouldn't start thinking "oh that means only a white girl would ever treat me right"

It's behavior too specific to attribute to groups as large as races

[sweetkiss99]

You don't unstand which is fine moving along. 👢

[jjmarvin]

Lol what a bitter reply to something so innocent. But you sounded bitter in the first place

[sweetkiss99]

Yes. And you sounded offended.. Were even..

[jjmarvin]

Now that's your own inference. I wasn't offended. You assumed i was and chose to be snarky

[sweetkiss99]

Boy Bye.

[RamyDarwishEG]

I do not see black women like that , though i think no black women like eastern men like me as they tend to prefer their own black men's race for *some* reasons , but i can get ur point as i have friends who view B women like that

Just ignore those men , and maybe that dating site all together too :)

[orphan]

the only rational answer i can come up with is they're not interested in a relationship w/ a black woman. Now, they'll feel like they have nothing to lose, hence the bold attempts to get in your panties.

[orphan]

also... black women are least likely to marry outside their race. thus, non black men insta-lump them into the "sex pile" . as said below.

[Dragan]

Certainly not.

[dudeinohio]

I consider black women desirable.. I've never sent perverted texts or had one night stands.