My boyfriend was dry humping me and he came... now he is worried that I hate him?

[Anonymous]

So we were home alone at my place, i was wearing short yoga shorts and a tank top. We were sittijng on the floor watching tv or something. He started kissing me and i fell on my back. He crawled on top of me and laid inbetween my legs. He was sniffing my neck and kissing my lips and neck. I was softly moaning and he started to dry hump me. He kept dry humping until at one point his breath started getting weird. he started breathing heavily and then after a bit, moaned and just gave out on top of me. He got up and started apologizing up and down. I said it was fine but he kept saying he was sorry and embarrassed. Now he hasn't talked to me in a few days and i want to know why is he avoiding me. And why was he so embarrassed about cumming in his shorts?

[ImSoSozzled]

Well it is embarrassing. It's like wetting your pants. It shows a lack of self control and he's probably worried that you think he won't last long with actual sex and a million other things.

When you say he hasn't talked to you, have you been trying to talk to him? Or are you just waiting for him to contact you?

[MysticIntent]

He probably feels like he got carried away and is probably scared that he may have scared you. Sounds like he may have gotten ahead of his own game and freaked himself out. So you should probably go find him and make sure he understands that it's all good.

[Daynada]

I guess just reassure him it's okay and you don't hate him😊

[Rahdle]

He has the same feeling as if he wet his pants. While laying on you. Go let him know it's okay cuz he's probably embarrassed as hell

[TripleAce]

That's fine, it's a good sign

Tell him how hot that made you feel

[R3d_Anonymous]

What @ImSoSozzled said. There's a lot of societal pressure on men to "be good in bed" and he's worried that this is going to indicate his inability to last long and thus you will dump him.

You don't seem that shallow, and kudos to you. But you never know - some girls are.

[legslover79]

its jut pretty much like the other guys said, he got very embarrassed. he probably was apologizing cuz he probably felt you were going to get mad at him. you girls do get the wacky thought of getting pregnant just by dry humping. ok... here's one thing... you never mentioned that it felt good to you when he was dry humping u. so i take it you have no feelings for him. maybe thats y he was apologizing

[LoveSpurts]

Tell him that it turns you on that he came in his pants because of you, then he won;t feel so embarrassed if he knows it turns you on.

[GirlsLie]

^^ This lol

[Kingfrosty]

Ya never happened to me never understood when people said these kind of thing happened. But ya if that happened to me i was be embarrassed it would be little less than you seeing me not turned on with out a hard or i couldnt get it up lol shit that would be horrible happy never happened to me :)

[Anonymous]

let him know you didn't mind it.