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Why is my family obsessed with catching me masturbating?

I've been caught so many times... like here are some examples, when i first started masturbating around 11 or 12 i had tons of porn on my game system, and my older cousin he's 26 now had the same game system so he knew how to work it even better then i did so i couldn't hide anything from him. He'd come over and get on my game system while i was at school I don't know why and when i came home he confronted me about it.. he went through my pictures and found tons of porn and i was humiliated. He was laughing and he started going through my browser history on my game system and found tons of porn on there too. i told him to stop that it wasn't mine (which was a lie) and he called my family in there to look at it, my mom, dad, sisters, brother, all of them were just looking at the porn on my game system looking at me like i was a freak or something, it started here. Now i take long showers becaue of an obvious reason... and my sister is constantly saying "they don't know what you do in the shower but i do" and smiling at me my little brother always randomly runs up on me when im on my computer alone to try and catch me and he has like 4 times i think... (as far as i know he doesn't really tel anyone he just runs up and tries to catch me) If i were to catch someone masturbating, or watching porn i'd look away or get out of the situation as quick as possible and never bring it iup again because i was there i unerstand the urges and the humiliation so id try and pretend i never saw it and eventually forget it. like i went on my sisters tablet to message her friend megan for personal reasons (i didn't have a phone at this time) i was messaging her because i liked her and i found porn on my sisters tab but she doesn't know i found it because i dont want to humiliate her but she's constantly trying to catch me releaving myself What's their problem? don't i have a right to my own privacy? i dont have my own room i have to share.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • ... dude.. back then when the Human saw fire for the first time, he had to touch it to know that it hurts. So the embarrassment is the fire in your case and your sister doesn't know how it feels yet. So you show her once by confronting her and then she'll never do that again.

    • So... masturbate in front of her on purpose?

    • No. Show her that you know whats on the tablet... wtf dude

  • I'm trying to imagine an 8 year old little brother trying to catch his older brother watching porn... uh, how old are your siblings?

    Anyway, they're just fuckin weird. You could have an outburst at some point about it to maybe stop them.

    • my brothers 12 turning 13 in December im 15 turning 16 in February

    • sisters are 16 and 18 turning 19

    • Oh wow. Lots of teens in your house.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well well...

    Maybe you need to turn the tables on them.

    • I dont want to humiliate them how they humiliate me i feel like i want to kill myself when they catch me i dont want them to feel that

    • Yeah, they think you're masturbating; do it in front of them.. Just no shame... you think I'm doing this? You're right... BOOM. (JK, dont do this).

    • @Batbob haha

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  • Maybe they want to see your penis :-/

    • They are more obsessed to see what im watching when i do it i got my words mixed up but they are always searching my devices for porn

    • do you need porn to masturbate? its normal for parents to be worried about porn usage in young guys to an extent. As long as it doesn't warp your views of girls or sex. Porn isn't real life, and 90% of the time it's not how a loving relationship should be, as long as you understand that. When I was in my teens I was constantly wanking, the urge will calm down trust me :-)

    • i thought maybe it could be real with the right person

  • Yeah, I'd say they're creepers. Not cool at all.

    • It is creepy they think humiliating me is a joke

  • Your siblings apparently are curious as to why you masturbate.

    • there's only one reason why people masturbate i just want to know why they are obsessed with catching me

    • Maybe you were tattling on them for stuff?

    • no i wouldn;t do them like that especially if itd embarrass them

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  • I would of love to have been your cousin.

  • Wow, It looks like the word privacy in your home doesn't exist and your family is sorry to say this but It's strange and your cousin seems to be an ass hold. Just ignore them, keep your privacy during shower If there is no other place to do it and as you turn 18 get the hell out of there I guest.

    • Yeah i can't wait to leave and yeah my cousin is

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