I told my boyfriend I have a scat fetish and but I realized I don't now. How do I recover?

[Anonymous]

So, it began like this... I like when he farts and stuff near me. Which may sound gross but I guess because I love him so much or I'm around him so much or for whatever reason I don't know why but he doesn't smell bad to me. When he farts its weird but it makes me happy because it's like we're comfortable together. They don't turn me on at all, i would not like my nose up his butt or anything. Lol. That would probably make me puke. Anyway for a while, I thought it was a fetish because I don't know anyone who likes that? But I really do not think it's a fetish. So now, because I told him it was a fetish he thinks I want to play with poop and have my nose up his anus. He's afraid to poop and fart around me because he scared he's going to turn me on. The thought of poop being anywhere else other than the toilet makes me nauseas. I think that farting in our relationship is somewhat new and that's exciting and I like it? Cause it means he trusts me. And that's all that this is. Anyways. He now thinks I have a scat fetish and is uncomforable and afraid he's going to turn me on by farting and having to use the washroom. I feel stupid. I want things back to normal... How can I recover from this

[Anonymous]

I think you just need to talk to him and explain exactly what you said here. It sounds like the two of you are very close emotionally. It also sounds like the relationship needs to mature enough in communication as well. That takes time and more effort.

[Anonymous]

Jus tell him he mis understood u and u just like how confertable u feel around him that even that dosn't bother u

[Asker]

Hmm... Thanks those were the words I was looking for to tell him in the first place

[Opinion Owner]

:) good luck

[Asker]

Thanks!

[AmandaLynn1930]

why dont you just be honest with him and tell him? you might sound a little silly at first, but if you explain everything he'll probably think its cute :)

[Asker]

I've tried. But he is pretty convinced I have a fetish. So when I explained I didn't he said he still thinks I have a fetish

[AmandaLynn1930]

well then he's a jerk for not believing you. maybe just give it some time and let it pass. as long as you dont talk about it or anything he'll probably realize that you dont have that fetish.

[Asker]

Thanks, this is what I've been trying to do now

[Mav1980]

Another thing you can do is react very vocally when you smell scat or farts from other people. He needs to understand it's more of a comfort/love thing and not about the actual cat itself. If he sees you react really negatively to dog poop or someone else's farts or whatever he might ask you "why did you wretch when you smelled/saw that scat? I thought you were into that sort of thing" and you can reply " I told you it's not about that its about being comfortable with you... I'm NOT turned on by it! eww" sometimes how you react and when you react speaks much louder than words.

[richhomiejuan29]

I have been into this since a teen started of fapping into anal porn. graduated into scat. probably watched every brazilian japanese and german scat video. no in my 30s paying Asian escorts to shit on me. i cannot get past the smell. if they are shitting on you always separate your skin with saran wrap. if your having her shit in your mouth use chocolate almonds or eggs instead.

[SamuelB]

Go to him and say "I think poop is gross, I don't not have a poop fetish."

[Asker]

I've done this!! Doesn't believe me. But he's clearly never seen me try and change a baby diaper/animal poop. I gag so much

[JonJames]

Why don't you just admit you are an anal girl? If he can't handle it, then you need a new man. One girl used to blow me while I took a dump. I was never happier. The poop did not go anywhere but the toilet, but she would kneel in front of me and suck while I was on the throne. A few times, she timed my orgasm to when the biggest poop came. I SAW STARS!

[gapminder]

Yeah that's a huge leap to go from tolerating a toot, to all out scat fetish.

[Asker]

I wasn't completely aware of what scat was lol completely different

[gapminder]

Yeah, you were being a nice tolerant girlfriend.
And he heard this:

https://youtu.be/B05BrLhYoU8

[Asker]

LOL for real

[Asker]

That made me laugh

[gapminder]

Good!, a little toilet humor goes a long way sometimes.

[JonJames]

More girls would like it than most can ever imagine...

[Mr2kinky]

Sorry for the issue but I wouldn't mind. Do you have a male scat fetish or its for your own poop?

[Iamanintrovert]

That's not fetish

[nemer27]

Did u try telling him that its make u sick if he try to do scat fetish

[Anonymous]

Yikes that just nasty

[JonJames]

A blumkin can be nice...