My boyfriend just stares at me during sex?

[Anonymous]

Especially when he is fingering me but also during normal intercourse it just stares at me the whole time. Like right in the eyes. It's hard to relax like that. I constantly feel like I'm being watched because well I AM being watched. He was my first so I'm not sure that's how it's supposed to be? But it creeps me out. I try to avoid looking at him the whole but it's hard. Sometimes he actually takes his hand and move my head so I'm looking right into his eyes again. Once I told him that he looks at me a lot when we are making love and he said "what else am I supposed to look at?" and that's a good point. But still I want just relax and not worry about how my face looks all the times

[JuicyBrain]

I don't get what's weird about it. Why would you worry about how your face looks? If he didn't like it, he wouldn't look at it. The guy is making love to you. He wants to fuse with you and eye contact seems like the right move. It's also very pleasing to watch your partner reacting to the pleasure you give her. Almost like a reward. I think you should learn to trust him and just let go. Though if it is really a problem, why not ask him to wear a blindfold or even wear one yourself? Maybe the sensory deprivation will actually help you concentrate on what you are feeling instead of how you look.

[Asker]

I feel like he is waiting for some kind of reaction but he never stops, so clearly I don't know what to deliver

[JuicyBrain]

All that he wants is for you to let go and enjoy yourself. How can you do that if you are constantly thinking about him looking at you. It's ok that he looks, just let your instincts kick in and enjoy the ride. Everybody will be happy.

[Anonymous]

Looking Each Other In The Eye Is Completely Normal, Do Not Be Creeped Out.
Like He Said, What Else Is He Suppose To Look At?
My Wife And I Always Look Each Other In The Eye When Making Love!
We Like Looking At Each Others Facial Expressions, It Turns Us On More Seeing The Expressions As We Both Get Closer To Cumming.

[Asker]

but the whole time?

[HookingSwan]

oh since it has only been 1 week then u should relax and give it time

also im sure that when u try some new stuff the awkwardness will disappear

missionary and fingering are just 2 positions in which he is kind of forced to look at u

I hope u dont want him to close his eyes or just look at ur vagina lol

Seriously relax. dont overthink it

The main problem here is that u are new to this nd that s why u are not relaxing. with time u will.

[Lyndsielee666]

Because he loves you and wants to feel a connection?
My boyfriend does the same thing to me but he's never done it to anyone else he had sex with,

[Animalshadow]

Maybe you don't feel completely comfortable with him.

[mikemx55]

Kiss him, caress him to distract him from your eyes.

But if you really want to avoid that: simply get into a position where you can't see his face ? seems kind of obvious to me...

[Asker]

well we haven't really done that yet. It's just been 1 week and all missionary And I DO want to face just not for him to stare at me waiting for some kind of reaction or something

[mikemx55]

Lately I got self conscious about where I look when people talk, and I realized I always look at their mouth instead of the usual look in the eyes. You can try that. Or hug him tight with heads side by side

[aliencreature]

stare back at him with a dead eyed stare. get up real close and wide eyed. invade his personal space. or whatever little personal space is left during sex. make HIM look away

[aliencreature]

or just do it from behind problem solved

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Its building a connection. Just do doggie if you are justopposed to it

[Anonymous]

He's building a connection. Try looking at him the whole time. Don't feel weirded out. If he was looking at something else then you might have a problem...