I have a fat vagina and I'm embarrassed kinda?

Question

I'm ready to have sex but the only thing that's holding me back is that I have a fat vagina and I'm scared the guy won't like it. I have watched porn and mine doesn't look anything like those girls (I know they're all different but they still have nicer ones I think.) I'm kinda chubby (not too much) but I have the v of a bbw. (When I was in late middle school, early high school I thought being small would help but clearly being skinny and at my smallest weight didn't change my vagina. It's what I was born with, I know lol) but girls just seem to have flatter ones or better looking ones. 
The top part is just puffy and then it goes down to my lips which are just... there I guess lol? I'm probably over thinking it, but no one has seen me naked before and I just don't want it to be a turn off because that'd be embarrassing. (Yes I know confidence is key.. I'm trying lol)

JuicyBrain · Accepted Answer

Hey ! We are all scared on our first time. We ALL go through it. We doubt our body am I going to be enough. Is he/she going to laugh at me. The keyword here is ALL. The person who will be with you will probably feel exactly the same. Give yourself a chance and remember how much you wouldn't want to be judged and apply it to him. He won't be perfect and he's probably very self-conscious about something on his body. If you can find it in you to accept him as he is, he will be able to do the same for you. You will both feel much better and comfortable. Your vagina is normal and I just know he'll like it. If only you knew how we feel when we get to see and play with one. You wouldn't worry that much.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Trust me. When a guy's about to get laid, he's not down there with a microscope doing a pelvic exam. He's trying to get your clothes off.

iamshelly · Accepted Answer

First of all, you gotta understand that porn stars are being paid to have pretty-looking vaginas, and a LOT of them get surgery to make them look "better". Most guys (if they're mature, and you shouldn't be having sex with an immature douchebag anyway) won't care if your snatch doesn't look exactly like (insert porn star here)'s snatch. I can assure you 110% that no man will take one look at your vagina and run away screaming. It's a vagina. They're men. It's kinda like their thing.

Don't worry so much about it. As long as it's clean, healthy and relatively well-groomed (depending on preference), you're all good.

Gemini86 · Accepted Answer

Do not worry. What you consider a flaw guys consider otherwise. Also, you never had sex before, and so it is okay to be nervous. The other person may be nervous also. Also, Vaginas come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. Each, and everyone is unique. You are fine. I had worried that my vagina was going to be disliked by the opposite sex, but I experienced differently. I have had stalkers.. after sexual encounters... The guys I have been with liked it, and did not complain. Do not let societies thoughts of the perfect vagina ruin your mindset on what a natural vagina looks like.

PrincessTashaaaa · Accepted Answer

A lot of guys like that. AND most porn stars have had surgery on their vaginas to make them look prettier, so don't worry about it. It's called a labiaplasty and I'm thinking of getting one soon, too lol

rorschach_ · Accepted Answer

I have the same problem. You would think that because a girl is small, she would be tight but NOPE. I feel your pain. Try kegel exercises

crystaaal · Answer

I don't think there's anything wrong with your v, guys don't really compare them, they'd probably only be turned off by it if it hasn't been washed for days and has somethings going on down there.

Bimbobambo · Answer

Oh my god, I'd love one like this! Girl tastes are different, its more important that the guy you want likes it than you liking it. Since you're straight your opinion doesn't count lol.

DodgersGM · Answer

Some guys like that, actually. And the vast majority won't think anything of it, good or bad. They'll just be happy to be there. LOL

kittykatbrat · Answer

Different guys like different looking pussies Grrrls are likewise re cock. Embrace what you have OR change it surgically :P Peace xo .

26ukdude · Answer

Trust me, like the others have said, once he can feel that warm wetness squeezing him, the won't care one bit  (source) Im a guy

leisureblade · Answer

Confidence is the key of course, but ur pussy looks perfectly normal to me? Can I have a look so I can tell u? LOL kiddin ;) :D

Bards · Answer

There is no such thing as a fat vagina. 😅

I_am_repulsive · Answer

You got nothing to worry about

BigBlack615 · Answer

Like other people have said, if it gets to the point where y'all are having sex he won't care either way lol. Besides girls with big lips do have nice camel toe haha.

OrangeBoy · Answer

Your vagina seems hot. I think im sure about that beeing a false problem. Go do da loooooov gil :)

larry69 · Answer

our vagina will feel awesome period

MattyBoy2018 · Answer

porn is the ultimate confidence destroyer if you try to compare to them. You and your pussy are just fine

crazyperson19 · Answer

i actually think thats very cute that your vagina is very thick, just look at it this way, your boyfriend might look at your very thick vagina as more to eat out